Lesbian, But I Can't Find Other Lesbians Or Don't Know Where To Look.

i have the same issue , i have yet to find a girlfriend and its sucks , i am from toronto and don't know how to meet other femme females, IT SUCKSSSSSSSSSSSSS.

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im 17. im a lesbian. masculine, its hard to find girls here. I just want a girl to treat right and to love. my names katie. text me16624028354

Im a lesbian, 21, get panic attacks so cant go out to clubs etc so only nearly every dating website and still single have been a year... :( xxxx

Hi I am curious about being a lesbian I want to try it but don't know any other lesbians PLEASE TEXT ME AT 704-322-6673

Hey Everyone,



Thought i'd put a comment in here. I'm 24 female, I've been out of the closet since I was 14. I suppose I'm referred to what other lesbians call a "lip stick lesbian" although I'm not much for labels myself. POF (plentyoffish) is an excellent site to meet other women. For myself, I'm located in Toronto Canada, so there's a very large gay scene here, I have no troubles meeting people. However, plentyoffish was a great site to meet like-minded lesbians who shared the same interests, that you don't always get going out to the clubs, etc.

Me too! I'm femme and only like femmes. I'm in the closet so I wouldn't know the first place to begin looking for other femmes...and no I'm not the type that wants to pick up at lesbian bars.

hey guys me too same as yours. im LB 23 frm phil. im not in hard time to find find girls but im in hard time to show my affection that i love her too... here some tip to find girl and this worked to me. find a single girl be friendly to them have fun and always make them happy... thats was the start of mine.hope it help brothers

hey i feel the same way too.. its so hard to find girls that are like me .. I wish someone could find me in the future.. i'm just too afraid to come out yet.. I'm afraid cause I don't wanna do it alone..

I'm 20, I am a closeted lesbian and I am in the same boat as you, I do not know where to look for girls, men come up to me and try and chat me up but i have no interest in them. I would like to find a nice girl but then again I fear it is my own fault that I cant because I'm closeted, who wants a girl like me? :-(

I'm a closeted lesbian, and I totally understand. there's nowhere to meet girls! I wanna just get to know someone and become close friends with them before anything happens. and likewise, i dont like masculine girls. whenever I go out with my friends to the bars and clubs they always chase boys and im just like ugh, i guess i'll pretend im interested in meeting some guys. Even when we go to gay clubs, all the girls there are straight tag alongs to their gay guy friends. whenever I come to this site I find so many people in my situation, but never seem to run into them in real life. I would say im a good looking girl, so i really dont understand why it's so difficult to find a girl I can like and be with!

I think there are a lot of girls who are confused, and society haa had a large impact. Girls either think they might go to hell, or that they're a ****. It's just hard to feel complete being gay, but not knowing how to feelcomplete. And you should add me so we can further talk about this, if you want.

I think you need to realize that there are alot of bi sexual girls these days, i know more gay and bi girls then straight ones, youll do fine. i should be more worried about finding a girl than you should. =D

I can say we're on the same boat. Ever since I was young, I knew I didn't want to get married or spend my life with any man but I never considered having a relationship with a woman. Now that I'm in my mid twenties, I realize my desire to have a partner in life. I don't have much confidence with myself and I don't expect women to find me interesting or attractive enough but I just want to talk and befriend others like me. For the past few weeks I've been searching for sites where I can chat anonymously with lesbians. Even though many of my co-workers are lesbians I feel I'm different from them because I am not masculine. Being a "chapstick lesbian" like me is not very common in our place and I know people will find it hard to understand what is about. I've never met anyone like me and it makes me feel so alone. I hope someday I'll find someone who understands me. Best wishes to us.