I've been in the closet for about a year. I realized I was a lesbian when I'd be thinking about this boy I thought I had a crush on, and I'd start thinking about this girl I know instead. I haven't told anyone. I'm afraid the girl won't be interested because she's only slightly attracted to girls(bi but mostly straight) and I'm especially nervous about telling my family, most of my family is really conservative and/or religious. That's another thing.. any gay people out there who are religious? I mean, I am but I find it hard to be when my church is so opposed to people like me finding love. Any thoughts?