Lesbian Chat Room.....why So Hurtful??Most OUT LGBT people have a deep understanding of the worry and fear you experiance before you come out of the closet...or SO I THOUGHT.
Untill Last night when i went to a lesbian chat room labeled "lesbians only LGBT support chat". When i entered the room there were several ladies talking about "snooky" and trivial things...seemingly having a good time. Until i asked if anyone would be willing to help me and give me some advice on how i could gently break the news to my husband that i am in fact a lesbian. These were the responses i received.
~~OMG WOW you can NOT be serious!
~~B**ch Just tell him you are BI and quit whining!
When i replied that i am not bisexual, that i'm not attracted to men i got this response....
~~Shut Up! Yes you are! you married him because one you were either attracted to him or 2 Your a gold digging s**t that only wanted his money!
And so i say "please...why are yall being this way to me?? don't you remember how confusing and hard it was before you came out?"
and they proceeded to laugh me out of the chat room telling me that "this is a CHAT ROOM! not THERAPY! If you want someone to listen to your pitiful fake problems go to a shrink!"
I am honestly shocked at the lack of support and understanding from those women....i don't know what to say beyond that!