Am I A Lesbian?

I'm married to a man, I'm a woman, and I have feelings for a woman. I have had feelings for her since I was 15, but I'm very much into church. We never kissed or made love, I have just always felt a serious connection for her and always told myself that she is the only one I would ever do something with if the chance came up... We lost contact for years, we have recently become reaquainted... I love my husband... I want my marriage to work, I love God, I do feel that this is wrong, but my feeling for this woman are strong.... we talk every day now, several times a day... I just don't know what to do... Am I a lesbian?
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Jan 15, 2013