At Least I Can Be Proud Here, Where No One Knows Me.

I agree with everything that you said. And, like Diana said, it is good to wait for a good timing. I hvaen't told any of my friends that I'm bisexual... they would automatically reject me... I hear them make fun of others who are bi... I worked hard to gain some few friendships.. But, thats why I love this site! Like you said, you can be open and people still talk to you. You get a feeling of being wanted here.. You'll know the right time to come out, and you'll be happy when you do. Take care!

i also love this site!! i think it encourage many people to live their life, and to know that we are not alone, that many people suffer the same as us!! Im proud of saying that im bisexual here in this site =)

SAME! i hate pretending to be someone im not..and trust me you will break or worst of all forget who you really are but its nice to have this site and thats why i think all of us have that in common. We looked for a place where we can be ourselves and it is sad that it has to be anonymous. Im bisexual and i hear it all the time how even gays are against bisexualism because its either one or the other but i dont go for gender only personality:)) and im here to support you if you ever need it:)

Something I have learned is that you have to do what makes you happy because nobody else will. It's sad I know but it's the truth. You are the only one who has to live your life so make sure it's a great one!!

You will know when it is your time to come out, just dont let your self suffer out of fear that you wont be accepted, because you will be.

you will know when it's time to tell but try not to do it in anger that would hurt more people than you think good luck in your young life xx

i feel the same,..:] i know I was never been myself, ever. Until now. Too scared to come out eyt? me too..I'm also barely 17..I'm afraid of rejection... I'm too afraid to lose..everyone. :(

Hi! You may find this interesting.

Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone

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Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story.

This books has been rated with 4.6 out of 5 in Amazon.
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This book will help your friends know that they are not alone; that they are not different; that what they are feeling is normal...

From the author herself:
"I started this project to share my experience with the hope that it will make others feel less alone and more understood, and to inspire empathy in those who have not had the experience themselves." -- NSB

I find it really a sad thing that in today's world the only way many people can "be themselves" is to be anonymous on the internet.

Half the time you can't even get a good meaningful conversation going with your friends and family today. You have to go to the net to be heard and to really talk.

It's sad that the world's coming to this.

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope it all works out ok in the end.

As one who has stood where you are, about 10 years ago, I can only reach out and give you a hug, and a kiss on the cheek.

So many of the other commenters have it right: be true to yourself. Shakespeare said it so well in Hamlet:

"This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."

Kisses

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