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Don't just because your gay. There is a giant difference between trans and gay. A a gay person, I feel like a woman, but like girls too. Just accept yourself. You can move and change your name, but don't be who you're not.

Don't... kill your weiner. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you have to become a girl. You really need to think about it. And besides, how are you gonna feed yourself? Nevertheless, just stay a guy.

Sex changes aren't as perfect sounding as they seem. You can't really change a man to a woman or vise versa perfectly. There are a lot of other variables.

Getting a sex change may be a little extreme. There's no particular reason why you can't move away and live as a gay man... There are plenty of us around, and there's plenty of room for one more. Besides, getting a sex change is a very long and expensive process... not one that should be entered into casually or for any reason other than gender dysphoria.

that has always been my plan, find some job in another state and move away from home and change into the person I really am. somedays this sounds great and other days i think i would be crazy for leaving such a loving family

there is a social network for guys who are secretly gay or bi or just curious. Most are in the same sitatuion as you or worse, some have girlfriends and wives that they dont want to lose. its www.sgobclub.com and you need an invitation code to join: use 6PWzMUMp

im a gay black guy in miami and i find it hard to find guys in my area who are like me

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I don't think you should get a sex change just because you're gay. Sex changes are for people who feel more comfortable as the other gender, not for people to become straight. At least thats my opinion, you may have reasons you didn't disclose.

Just be honest with them. My husband (soon to be ex) has been trying to hide it from me for years. My kids are gone now and I hope very much to find someone who will love me and want me.

You don't really know wheter they will accept you or not because you never told them. But I do understand you because it is hard to tell your family such thing. you shouldn't change your body just to hide from people who know you and to get away. Unless you feel like a woman inside. I hope everything works out for you. good luck