Absolutely Not *lol*

the random experience thing made me laugh. I am by no means a control freak. :P

I have been called strong willed by others, but do not try to force my will on others.

I attempt to give advice only as needed. I am a good leader but I realize there is more than one way to skin a cat (it's a phrase, it means there's more than one way to do things)

I keep myself in check, that does not make me a control freak. My friends know that I will not judge them, when my cousin got pregnant I was one of the first people she spoke to about it. (I will never ever trust condoms, she said they used one and it broke.. Thanks Rebecca! :) I am not making that mistake.) Yeah I hold tight to my morals and I know they are what's right for me, but not necessarly right for others. I have a good head and I am quite rational for a girl, so I've been told. I try my hardest not to let my emotions cloud my thinking. I have been known to wait until the extreme emotions subside. I don't boss people around, I ask them to do things yes but I don't boss them around. Nobody likes to be talked down to (I absolutely hate it and refuse to talk to other's that way)

I do not like name calling, but I will not attack them back

I do not think I'm better than they are, I just hold true to myself.

I'm not stuck up, I just tend to bite my tounge when I'm in emotionally intense situations, to prevent me from saying (or doing in other instances, ie: attraction) something I shouldn't.

I have a pretty good sense what's right and wrong (at least in my mind)

I feel that I have to control my emotions or else they will control me and I don't even want to know what happens if I don't take a step back and I just lash out. I've always been like that. The one thing my mother (and my sister does this too thanks to mother) always did that hurt so bad the emotionally filled lashing out at people.

I am so glad I'm not like that. Words can hurt so much more than a spanking ever could. A spanking can only hurt your flesh, words can wound you to the core (especially if said by a parent). Once said, it's hard to take back, especially if you say something you "don't mean", and sometimes it can damage a relationship.


See, not a control freak. Just a respectful person!

wack1985 wack1985
31-35, F
May 1, 2010