Where Are All the Control Freaks?
I'm surprised there are only two people in this group. This is the major issue I am dealing with in my life. My relationships are suffering because I always think I know best. I believe this really contributed to my divorce since my ex never felt like he was good enough for me. My girlfriend now says the same things, so I'm pretty sure it's me and not them. I don't mean to be critical and I really don't think I know everything, but when I am in the moment and have a different opinion about how things should be done I can't let it go. My mother is the same way and it kills me to see myself acting like her but I am having such a hard time changing. Ironically, I also obsess about what people think of me so I often only try to control people I am close to since I don't worry as much about them not liking me. Really weird