Some Of My Original ThoughtsNature Never Intended Humans to be Monogamous:
Tiger Woods was married to Elin Nordegren, a beautiful; Swedish model. He cheated on her and they divorced. Peter Halsey Cook, an architect, was married to Christie Brinkley. He cheated on her and they also divorced. These men left their beautiful wives to have adultery with less attractive women that they did not love. Why?
When Calvin Coolidge was President, he and his wife were being shown (separately) around an experimental government farm. When Mrs. Coolidge came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, “Dozens of times each day.” Mrs. Coolidge said, “Tell that to the President when he comes by.” Upon being told, President Coolidge replied, “With the same chicken?" The reply was, “Oh, no, Mr. President, there are many different hens.” President: “Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge.”
When men lose their sex drive with their spouse but can still be sexually stimulated by new females, it is called the Coolidge Effect. It is found everywhere in nature. All mammals exhibit the Coolidge Effect. Even animals that pair off for life, still do not have genetic monogamy.
Evidence that Humans are Designed for Polygamy:
Adolescent males compete with each other for dominance. They bully weaker members. There is a struggle for being the alpha male. Those who achieve dominance receive respect from their peers and their pick of the girls. Girls need to love someone they can respect and honor, so they are naturally attracted to the dominant male.
Scientists who study this say that only 17.8% of human societies practice any form of monogamy. And when you consider ancient societies the numbers are even less. The ancient Jews did not practice monogamy. Today, Muslims have been successful in a polygamous society.
Why there are Gays and Transgendered:
So if the dominant guys get the girls, and then what happens to those males who are not competitive or dominant? Nature has designed humans so that they have substitutes for their need for human intimacy. Of course there are gays. Many of these guys have been bullied for most of their lives. Then there are guys who enjoy dressing and acting as females. Many of these are just fetishes. A fetish is just using ob