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Some Ways I Punish My Husband

I am the undisputed boss at home but sometimes my husband disobeys me, complains or doesn’t show enough respect to me.  For those cases, here are some ways I punish him:
 
Some punishments that have to do with sex:
  • Withhold his ******* for several days, while making him give me ******* either orally, by hand or using a vibrator.  Every time he asks if he can come, I tell him no and remind him of his transgressions. 
  • I ruin his ****** – making him get to the point where he can no longer stop *********** and stopping stimulation so that he ********** without having an ******.  This is one of the ways I end a period of withheld *******.
  • I continue to stimulate him after he has had an ******. This is the other way I often end a period of withheld *******.
  • I squeeze his balls.  You can do this quite hard and it will be very painful but will not cause him permanent damage.
  • I slap his balls.  Rather that slapping him really hard I slap him many times at a rapid pace with medium strength.  This is also very painful but minimizes the possibility of hurting him too badly.  I make him help by squeezing at the base so they are presented to me nice and round.
 
Other punishments that have nothing to do with sex - examples:
  • I make his favorite food and make him eat something he hates while the rest of the family eats what he likes best.  After the meal, he puts together all the leftovers of the food he likes and gives it to the dog.  Any leftovers of the food he hates are saved for him to eat on his next meal.
  • I ask him to go to the grocery store for milk when he is watching his favorite TV shoe/football game.  When he comes back, I ask him to go back to the store for something else, and keep doing this until the end of the show or until he complains.  If he manages to behave until the end of the show, I tell him that this was his punishment and never to do what he did again.  If he complains, I tell him why I was doing this and tell him that he will be punished twice now – once for what he did before, and once more for complaining.
  • I don’t let him eat dessert for a week/a month/etc. depending on the seriousness of the offense.
  • I make him the designated driver at a party so he cannot drink any alcohol while I drink as much as I want.
  • I make him drive me to and from a bar where I am spending time with friends.  That way I can drink since I won’t be driving.  He is not allowed to ask me who I went out with or anything else.  This one drives him particularly crazy but he’s not allowed to complain.
  • I ground him for the weekend.
  • I spank him.
  • I don’t allow him to speak to me or to touch him unless I speak to him first or give him permission to touch me.
 
I have used all the above punishments and some others, and I have a very docile and obedient husband.  I hope this posting Is useful to other wives.

martafarias24 martafarias24 51-55, F 27 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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Glad to hear your keeping the sissy sub in his place, I put mine in lockable noisy plastic knickers and send him to the library to change my books, they make such a noise he doesn't know where to hide himself. I am also outrageously flirty with waiters, male shop assistants and any tradesmen or delivery men who visit the house, a favourite is to leave sexy underwear around the house or answer the door in basque and suspenders with a towel wrapped loosely around.

Anne

You sound prefect!!! I wish my wife were more strict with me!!!

Thats wonderful. Well thought out.My wife needs to read your list. would be like being a child again:-)

good

Humiliation and punishments my wife uses on me
Humiliation:
She makes me say thank you after she orders a task, lets me come or teases me not allowing me to come.
She makes me do chores either naked or in panties and tells me how cute I look.
She uses me a a footstool when she wants to relax.
She ties me to our bed naked and teases me for a little bit and then leaves me there while she goes and watches her favorite tv show. She also does this sometimes and then goes to the store for a little while.
She makes me clean her every time I am allowed to have an ****** inside her. Most of the time she makes me pull it out before and has me come on her feet breasts stomach or genitals and then I have to lick every drop up.
She makes me wear her panties under my clothes to work when she wants.
She has me massage her feet and kiss and lick her toes while I am kneeling on the floor naked.

Punishments:
These are only used when I disrespectful to her, arguing, complaining or not doing what is asked of her most of the time.

She spanks me hard withe her wooden hairbrush either bent over her knee or in our bed with my *** in the air and wrists and ankles tied.
She will hog tie me with wrists and legs together behind me.
She will tie me spread eagle to the bed face down and then attach a string or rope to my genitals and up my *** crack to one of my wrists.
She will put me in a corner and I can't move or talk until she says or there will be a hard spanking with her wooden hairbrush.
She will put me in my chastity device for the day or up to a week at a time depending on what I did.

As the wife/mistress of EP member gojohnnygo I have caught my slave gojohnnygo smoking for the second time. A habit that I have strictly forbidden. My sister found an opened pack of 20 in his car with 14 missing. This indicates that he has obviously smoked them. His denial only made his fate worse. He will spend the whole of today cleaning the house. Sis and I put him to work at 6 am, he will work naked and in shackles. The chains ensure all the work he does is much more difficult as he movements are somewhat restricted, and we have use a ball gag to silence his complaints if he dares to make any.As 14 cigarettes were missing he will be given 14 lashes every hour and on the hour throught the day. 7 with the whip and 7 with the crop.These have been,and will continue to be, administered while he works as he will get no reprieve. Sis suggested that he should get 14 from each of us to ensure he learns a lesson, but at the moment I have kept it at seven. If we find any substandard cleaning it may be raised, or are we being to cruel ? Smoking will do him more harm than any amount of lashes.

enjoyed reading your story, I would love to chat

My ex often punished me in very cruel sexual ways. I would not be allowed relief for months at a time, receive special spanking, hits to my ****s. Even had pepper juice rubbed on.

I have too admit, I deserved everything I got. Very effective punishments

my ex wife would give me an excruciatinly slow *******, then the closerbi got to ***, the more she would squeeze my balls.. When I came, it would be quite a.hard squeeze....true story!

I too find that spanking his balls (or the threat) and controlling his ORxxxXs is a very effective way to handle my husband.
Why do men have balls? So Women can be in control.
It is funny how quick he comes to an understanding when I get a hold of his balls! Lol !

My wife/mistress has a long thin chain which she padlocks tightly around the base of my manhood, when I am given an order my response must be immediate or I am soon down on my knees. Much to her amusement.

I am otherwise everyday guy, masculine and dominant. However, 15 yrs ago, my wife started spanking my balls as punishment for not controlling my temper. New sherriff and new rules. No sex until I was on my back, in bed, and getting my balls spanked with the back of her hand. She would explain my "naughty boy behavior," spank me firmly and usually let me come soon after. She would also give me reminder spankings at time that were not nearly as hard even when I had not been "a naughty boy." The most dominance that she has had over me in the past several yrs is by rewarding and giving me "good boy treats" for being such a good boy. The disciplinary spankings worked. I have not had temper outburst in many yrs.; I still get frustrated but have learned to respond like an adult. BTW, she often reminds me that "good boys" get more treats; it's true. It took a few yrs to catch on, but now, I wouldn't have it any other way.

love it

all this is bullshit....made up fantasies ...get a life losers

wow he is lucky to have you i say...lol

It is refreshing to see a woman who a,recognizes the power she has over her man,and b,doesn't hesitate to exert it.Why are there not more women like this?

I like the way you punish your husband i use some of the same punishments, i like to go out in the evening to a night club wearing a sexy leather outfit & long boots but my husband is made to stay at home

Have you thought about locking him in chastity and taking other lovers as punishment? You sound like you could work that into the mix. How about tying him to a chair an forcing him to watch as you ride your lover and taunt him while staring into his eyes? AAhh the deliciousness of it all!!! I just love the people on EP, so honest and open huh?

you are a wonderful wife.

mee too started punishinf my small hubby

Thank you for your wonderful suggestions. My wife and i are happily in a femdom relationship; she is in charge and controls the money, makes the decisions, sets the social agenda, makes the rules - we have many of them, some of which I have suggested, and she sets the punishments for breaking the rules. I do the housework, turn over my pay, and am attentive to my wife and her mother who lives with us.



Punishment for infractions is not immediate but Nancy and her mother note infractions of the rules and when i accumulate enough it's time for settling accounts and a punishment session is merited. Punishment consists of three phases

1) admonishment, i am told what i did wrong, scolded, and get an opportunity to admit guilt and apologize - there is no appeal, the women have the say here,

2) physical punishment usually with a leather paddle - usually Nancy and/or her mother administer punishment although other women have, too,

3) Penance. After I receive physical punishment I am given penance usually lasting 3-7 days. This may be no smoking, no drinking, no social outings, extra chores, doing chores for the women's lady friends, and so on. Only when penance is completed is the punishment finished and i may receive additional physical punishment at that time or penance may be extended



Thank you for your suggestions; we will likely incorporate many of them into our lifestyle

Mother-in-law's must also be obeyed as of course wives too. A husband SHOULD shut up and listen to his mother-in-law and wife because they are the women of the house, if your WIFE scolds you then understand why she is upset. It is our duty to submit to their needs, I have learned this the hard way. Women always win. Women must be obeyed if you want your marriage to succeed. Women have power over men and those men who exert power simply lose at the end. The only marriages that are truly happy ones are the ones in which the man learns his place and shuts up. You wife has all the rights and you have her shoes to lick, and her arm-pits IF you are lucky. She may even give her love to you if you submit to her. SHE RULES !!! I always seek her approval and love by submitting to her without condition. It is not easy at first. She has made me get injections for misbehavior and I will post my entire story one day. The needles were humiliating but necessary and now I see it her way and only her way. My opinions DO NOT matter. Hers are supreme. The mother-in-law also is supreme. I have massaged my mother-in-law's feet when I visited her two years back. She expects me to serve her daughter.

Thank you for your wonderful suggestions. My wife and i are happily in a femdom relationship; she is in charge and controls the money, makes the decisions, sets the social agenda, makes the rules - we have many of them, some of which I have suggested, and she sets the punishments for breaking the rules. I do the housework, turn over my pay, and am attentive to my wife and her mother who lives with us.



Punishment for infractions is not immediate but Nancy and her mother note infractions of the rules and when i accumulate enough it's time for settling accounts and a punishment session is merited. Punishment consists of three phases

1) admonishment, i am told what i did wrong, scolded, and get an opportunity to admit guilt and apologize - there is no appeal, the women have the say here,

2) physical punishment usually with a leather paddle - usually Nancy and/or her mother administer punishment although other women have, too,

3) Penance. After I receive physical punishment I am given penance usually lasting 3-7 days. This may be no smoking, no drinking, no social outings, extra chores, doing chores for the women's lady friends, and so on. Only when penance is completed is the punishment finished and i may receive additional physical punishment at that time or penance may be extended



Thank you for your suggestions; we will likely incorporate many of them into our lifestyle

I am under the spell of my wife and will do as she asks when it comes to our sex life she is in control.

She will have me give her many ******* using her favourite toys and only pay any attention to me sexually when she ties me down with my legs over the end of the bed spread wide when she has great fun torturing my shaft and balls. When she decides to make me shoot she always squeezes the base of my shaft as I shoot to stop it coming out. It is painful leaving a dull pain in my groin which lasts for a few days and reminds me of her. She has always thinking up new ways to hurt my shaft and balls some of which have caused injury which fortunately healed ok. I never know what to expect which is part of the attraction of her controll.

My wife is not overly dominating but does tell me that a house hold is completely dependent on the wife to be successful. If a woman does not control the household, then things fall apart. She does not spank me, but because of my anger and yelling has told me that I need to be taken to a doctor. Lately she goes out by herself. I have asked her why she does not include me in her outings and she told me "dont worry I am not cheating, I just need my time away from you". She goes to the gym by herself and sits in the Sauna, getting all sweaty. She has very sexy arms that I adore because she has slightly hairy arms which turn me on to no end. I have seen her in the Sauna, wet with sweat, and her arms are so sexy. The hair is all wet. I could spend an eternity staring at her arms. She is also too friendly with men. Always striking up a conversation. She was not like that before, just for about a year now. Anyway, I told her she should not sit alone in the Sauna without me. She now know I am jealous. Now she called a Doctor (woman psychiatrist) and wants me treated. I am scared that the woman doctor will only side with her. She also shows NO affection towards me. Everyone needs some attention. She gets all the attention and I don't get any, not even from her. She showed me an article on the internet which talks about injections for jealousy.



http://www.livestrong.com/article/164863-what-are-the-treatments-for-delusional-disorder-jealous-type-dsm-iv-297-1/



I told her I wont take any injections, this not at all fair. She says "it is up to the doctor". I then asked her what she told the doctor and her reply "it is between me and the doctor". You need treatment.



What can I do to get out of this situation? Should I go to the doctor? What if I show the doctor that I have no problems, will she them let me go?



Is it possible for the doctor to correct my wife instead of me?

You can REFUSE or LEAVE! You do not have to be treated this way.

Dear Mam, I am in great need for your advise. Please read my experience and tell me how I should proceed. EP Link

I am not very submissive but do understand that women are the superior sex and control the relationship. I am extremely jealous of where my wife goes. As you said, you dont tell your husband whom you went out with. That would completely drive me MAAAD. I dont know if I could take that. Please tell me how I can get my wife to show me love. I don't want to degrade my self so please understand I have some self respect. Why cant women show love and care like in the past generations? It is like a dream that will never come true. We men seem to just serve you and serve you ALL the time.

Please help me my handle is doctorrs@hotmail.com

Thank you for sharing your ideas on punishing your husband. I will show these to Mistress L as she loves reading what other dominant women do to their men.

Thank you for posting this, i must now show my Wife this for new ideas on how to punish me.

i like this and u have given me some good ideas, mine is fucken useless! i've just started training him, there were 2 things i told him to do, and he disobeyed, i want to give him blow after blow for his insolence, but i dont want him to regress although if that happens i'd have to find a new 1!