My sissy .is generally a good little girl for me. It embarasses her when I call her that but it also turns her on. She has become adept at housework and is good at picking up exactly on my mood. Sometimes, however, a few reminders need to be issued. Unlike some dominant wives I dont restrict my hubby. For me a sissy with an erect penis is a sissy who is keen to please, but a cb is used at bedtime.I have a number of methods. The cane, which she hates, is a last resort as I dont want her getting used to it. A caning should be a punishment not a pleasure. I have a single arm bondage sleeve which she must wear, along with a ball gag, whilst kneeling in a corner for whatever period I decide. Not only is this extremely uncomfortable after a while it is also mind numbingly boring which means she is eager to make amends when finally released, and that might be hours. If my displeasure has been incurred sufficiently then she will spend a night in a cage. A couple of years ago I instituted a set bedtime for her, 8.30pm. Initially this was met with sulks but when she saw that I would not relent she got used to it. This regime operates all year round. It must be maddening for her hearing myself and friends having drinks on the patio beneath her bedroom window but she knows better than to make her presence known to my guests. As punishment I have also sent her to bed in a nappy and am considering the use more often.