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I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

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 I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :)

Any tips for someone just starting out?

I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance. 

Do you girls try to make small talk with them for a while before asking if they want to buy a dance? If so what do you talk about? 

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Posted Aug 10th, 2009 at 9:26PM
Talk to them about anything. They come in for sympathy, and attention. Ask how their day was the chances are they will want to talk about themselves so you won't have to say much, but don't get stuck in conversation with out getting a dance. After a little while say it was nice talking to you but i need to make some money, oh did you want a dance.
     
Posted Aug 12th, 2009 at 8:23AM
Some tips from a customer:

Definitely make the first move in terms of talking to customers. A lot of guys who go to ***** clubs are shy, and they want to talk to you, but they won't make the first move.

When you chat up customers, sit close to them. If they can feel and smell you next to them, they will want a dance from you. Touching them is also a good idea, like putting your hand on their thigh. At one club I go to, the girls usually just come and sit down on your lap. Don't know how it works at your club, but that sure is effective.

Anything that shows interest and affection will probably help. You may think the customers are just scummy perverts, but they are mostly lonely and want to form a connection with a woman. Anything that makes it seem like you're actually "into" them will make them want to give you money. Use whatever tricks you usually use to get a guy to fall for you; imagine this is someone you actually want to fall in love with you. The more emotionally attached the guy feels, the harder it will be for him to say "no" when you keep asking him for twenties.
     
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Posted Oct 8th, 2009 at 11:27AM
the guy above me gave really great tips, also to learn how to be a great dancer watch some youtube videos, you can actually learn the art of pole dancing if that is also what you want to do.
     
Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 2:14PM
those youtube videos are helpful! watch them!
     
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