A Fat Girls' Thoughts On The Benefits Of Dating A Fat Girl

I would like to address the fellas out there.I know when you read a title like that,no immediate benefits come to mind.But let me enlighten you to a few. 1) Never will I ask you if I look fat in the outfit I'm wearing.I already know what makes me look fat.Vision.I've never understood why a woman asks that question.It's unfair to put a man on the spot like that knowing he will never give an answer she will ever be satisfied with.I'll ask if ou find me attractive.In my opinion,I think a man would have A LOT more fun answering that question. 2) I actually don't mind if you are into video games ( I actually love RPGs and read Game Informer monthly),comics,Star Wars,Star Trek,and sports.But,you need to understand that there has to be a limit to your passions.I will not be intimate with you on the sheets of your favorite sports team or ones that bear the likeness of Luke Skywalker and R2D2.If your passions rule your life,then there's room for me in it. 3) I don't take hours to get ready to go somewhere.I have long,straight hair and wear it in very simple styles.I'm allergic to every cosmetic and perfume known to the human race,so getting ready,for me,is a simple affair.And unless you're a female impersonator,you shouldn't take that long either. 4) I understand that you want time to yourself and to hang out with your friends and I can respect that.But,when you spend all your time with them or even worse,start treating me different or with any level of disrespect while we are together in their presence,I WILL LEAVE.You had better believe I can and will find someone who knows how to treat a woman. 5) I don't want you to shop with me.Shopping isn't something I enjoy and do mostly because I have to.The last thing I wanto deal with after rude shoppers,salespeople,and cashiers is you following me around complaining and asking if I'm done yet.Drop me off,do your thing,and I'll call you when I'm done.  6) (And this is a good one) I HAVE NO DESIRE TO MARRY OR LIVE WITH YOU.I think that this just screws up a good relationship by adding pressure that just isn't needed.And it's hard enough to leave someone or have someone leave you without having to involve the court system (that and everyone in my family has been married and divorced at least once and I just don't want to become another statistic). 6) I don't get cold as easy as a skinny girl does so you don't have to worry about your body heat being leached from you while we sleep.On the contrary,you may never want to get out of bed because I'm just that warm.See? All this and more you could be missing out on.Maybe next time you could give a girl like me a chance.You might be very pleasantly surprised at the treasure you might find.
LadyMoonStone LadyMoonStone
36-40, F
5 Responses Aug 27, 2010

You forgot softness to the touch, and hugs, which span a larger surface area than a thin girl. Those are both good reasons to date a girl who's fat.

You are a treasure. I hate it that with all the fat shaming and stuff in our society fat people are made to feel like they aren't. Idk if you'd be interested, but I really recommend this http://www.lindabacon.org/haesbook/ it talks about some of the myths we've been told about fat. Anyway, it's interesting. And, in addition to that, there are many men who LOVE fat women :) Take care and I hope you do find someone who will treasure you. You deserve it.

The few times I've had the pleasure of dating a big girl were some of the best experiences of my life. I've discovered in fact that I have no size limit. SSBBWs are among the sexiest women on the planet. Just sayin'.

yoor good writer sweety !

I enjoy the touch and feel of a big girl particularly in those soft fleshy places. I enjoy feeling large hips and stomachs. It is enjoyable to perceive a tactile sensation around all those nice plentiful folds.