Fat Girl Sex?

I have always thought of this, since starting high school two years ago. Recently, my best friend told me of losing her virginity. That got me thinking. I have never had a boyfriend, been kissed, or anything. I AM ABOUT TO BE A JUNIOR IN HS! I swear, im going to be the 40 year old virgin. I am wild at heart, and if i was skinny, would do anything! Skinny dip, anything! But, since i hate my body, Im not even comfortable thinking about having sex! Hello? I may have the wrong idea about what kind of guy I would do it with, but I want him to enjoy it to. I don't want him to be ashamed of me, of closing his eyes and imagining someone else. Of being practically fully clothed. It needs to be a mutual pleasure, and I dont want to pull an edward and bella and break a freakin bed....and its NOT from my strength. I dont have high expectations, but I am not a *****. I couldnt be a ***** even if i wanted to. I changed schools recently...going from a private school with 12 kids in 9th grade alone....to a public school for sophomore year...surrounded by girls dressed with hardly anything...and me dressing nice and not a single guy will look at me. It definitely makes my self esteem go from a 5 to a 2.8...fat girl problems.
hidingmybody hidingmybody
18-21, F
6 Responses Jul 19, 2012

Open your mouth or your legs and you will get as much as you want...boys love to empty their balls, thats all they really care about...so be a receptacle for their *** and you will be as popular as all get out.

high school is stupid, but once you get to college some guys will go out of the way to get with a fat girl. Especially one that already has a disposition to do "anything" once she is comfortable.

I really like chubby girls :-) But what matters is you heart. You are still young and you will see you will find a guy that will love you. Please don't change nothing in you. You seems a cute girl :-)

I won't advocate trying to change yourself. That is not a healthy attitude. Instead work on your smile. 1. It'll make you happier. 2. A lot of guys will start noticing you. Trust me, most men are suckers for brilliant smiles, including yours truly. And like lovemeludo said, you'll soon find someone who likes you for who you are. Trust me, my first time was with Neha, my first girlfriend who was really plump. And she rocked my world. So, be confident. And smile, you deserve it.

It sucks and it will be really hard, but you can change. Treat your eating habits as you should, like an addiction. Do research and figure out how to change your lifestyle. You will eventually like working out, but it will take a few months of workouts, 4 days a week, to start seeing results. There is tons of good nutrition information on the web.

Believe it or not, there are actually guys out there that will find you attractive. High school is tough and mst guys this age aren't really open to dating differnt types of girls. They are want the same thing so they can be seen a certain way by their friends. As for the sex, well i am a fat girl and lost my virginity a few months ago (I was 17 at the time.) Sex works the same way no matter your body type. You will not break the bed or anything like that. Hopefully your first time will be with someone who makes you feel beautiful.