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I Am a Father

A Father's Checklist

By: rickleester
Written on January 22nd, 2013
Age: 41-45 , Male
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  • ambroseguy80

    As a father to one daughter and three boys, I can tell you that this checklist is a great idea! Thanks for sharing...

    Feb 22
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  • rickleester

    You are right. I forgot discipline. I am naturally inclined to discipline my daughter. While I received corporal punishment as a child, I decided together with my wife that we would not spank our daughter. We use other strategies. Perhaps a new post on discipline would be appropriate, too!

    Jan 22
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    • bijouxbroussard

      Very good for you, sir. People don't have to hit or abuse their children to discipline them. There are other ways to discipline that preserve their dignity and self-esteem. You sound like a wonderful, loving father.

      Jan 24
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    • rickleester

      Thank you bb. Though I think I am not at all that wonderful, I have so far deluded my daughter in thinking otherwise :)

      Jan 24
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  • DozerDan

    That's a good list for the father of a young child. I don't see discipline when she breaks rules, and that is also important part of teaching that fathers do and mothers usually can't do. A firm but gentle bare bottom spanking when she's naughty teaches many good lessons that a girl needs to learn and only a father can teach.



    As she gets older, it will be good to begin adding instruction in becoming a wife and mother to the teaching of your girl. A father's job is to create a successful adult, and a woman is successful when she marries a good man and bears your grandchildren. A fathers most important job is to "give away" our grown up daughters to a good young man we helped her find.

    Jan 22
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    • peza

      You need your head examining.

      Jan 25
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