Need Some Clothes Advice And A Few Other Advice Questions Please

Hi girls i was wondering if someone can help me.I am a 26 year old Female that i was born a male and i had the surgery 6 months ago.I work in a small office with all females and the dressed code is i have to wear Business attire every day i can wear skirts but nothing below the knee.So since i have been working as a female i have been wearing dresses and skirts and tops and 3 inch heels every day.A few of my co-workers told me that i do not have to wear dresses every day .Can any one recommend clothes that i can wear that would come close for business attire i am getting tired of wearing dresses and skirts every day.I was thinking would a pair of slacks and a nice blouse consider with maybe a 2 inch heel instead of a 3 inch..Can anyone recoomend any stores that i can try that i could buya nice pari of slacks and alos can any one recommend any stores that would have a nice pair of 2 inch heels. i would appreicted any information

I also need another peice of advice is i got invited to my first bridal shower from one of the girls that have been so supportive to me since the start and i have knowing her for years.What would be good to wear for a bridal shower and it is at an italitan resturant and about 15 or so ladies are going to be there i would also appreicted any information you can give me.I ask please and i know there are a lot of people out there in this world that always have a negitive or two please do not leave them here i will report you not a problem .I am asking anyone lady out there that has any open mind and if they can help me out .Thanks and have a nice day