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Farrell Email

By: DenteAvvelenato
Written on January 20th, 2013
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • ray3218

    I haven't really picked through this junk, but isn't there some kind of statue of limitations that would be imposed upon this kind of timeline?

    Mar 11
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      yes.this post was for consa who wanted evidence of claims I made on the Warren Farrell Taboo.Hustler article.

      Mar 11
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    • ladyblue848

      I know that in California the statute of limitations for defamation lawsuits is 1 year, and its pretty much the same everywhere else. So the time for him to sue that woman has long come and gone. In addition, proving that something is true is an absolute defense to a lawsuit for defamation which is undoubtedly why Farrell never sued Penthouse back in 1977 for posting the article in its magazine that had thousands of subscribers. He was just being a bully and trying to scare Liz by threatening her with a lawsuit I'm sure he knew he would lose if he actually filed to try to stop her from continuing to post the article that tells the truth about him. Just another example of what a jerk he is.

      Mar 11
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  • ladyblue848

    All I can say is that if what Penthouse quoted Warren Farrell as saying in the article they published back in 1977 was a misquote, how come Farrell didn't demand that they remove or recant the article, and threaten to sue them for libel if they didn't? The fact that he didn't do that suggests that what he is trying to claim now as false isn't, and the threats of a lawsuit he is making is nothing more than bullying to try to stop people from demonstrating the kind of person he was three decades ago.

    Mar 5
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  • consa

    The above Email dates from 1999.
    This ball of wax can be clarified only by an action for defamation, or by a first rate lawyer being paid 100K to write a thorough report. There is no source of funds for the latter.

    Who is Liz? What does she think of the father's movement? To whom is "Liz's Response" addressed?
    How did Dente come to be in possession of this correspondence between Farrell and his lawyer?
    Who are the "major leaders of the fathers' movement" other than Farrell himself? Is there any truth to the claim that there have been attempts to discredit people other than Farrell himself?
    Who are the McNeelys in Florida?

    ""Robert and Cindy McNeely have found some damaging evidence about Liz [edited]'s background."" I am confident that statements of that nature are routinely made in communications between clients and their lawyers. To claim that such communications are defamatory may be true, in a technical sense, but getting indignant about that fact of life is an exercise in futility.

    "Damages as in losing money? The ostensible "cause" really is just about your making MONEY? Are you saying that the NCFC is actually a commercial enterprise?"
    It is my understanding that to spread false statements that make it harder for a nonprofit to raise money, and that lead to the cancellation of sponsorships, is technically defamatory.
    This is so even though the ostensible purpose of the nonprofit entity is not to make money. For money is to any social organism what blood is to a biological one, a sine qua non.

    All sorts of insinuations are arguably libelous. My response is that we should grow thicker skins. The USA has largely moved to a state of affairs such that the only meaningful libel is false and damaging statements disseminated by a media firm about an individual in private life. You and Farrell would both be better off if you took that on board. A free society includes our fellows being free to form and express derogatory opinions about us.


    I have long argued that the British common law of defamation is inconsistent with contemporary notions of freedom of speech and the value of robust debate. This inconsistency is grounded in the fact that defamation law evolved centuries before the prevailing notion of freedom of speech. The USA Supreme Court has moved in that direction, but not the jurisdiction I live in, where threats of action for defamation are a dime a dozen. Elected officials here sue private citizens who make insulting remarks about them at town meetings. Years ago, my manager at work threatened me with defamation because I told my colleagues that I had grave reservations about the ethicality of a number of his actions. I replied saying that he was free to sue me, and that if he did so, I would vigorously defend myself on the merits. I set aside 20K in anticipation of legal bills. Nothing came of this threat, in part because the HR mediator assigned to this dispute pretty much sided with me. At any rate, I should be able to draw HR's attention to workplace problems without fearing that the persons I accuse could sue for defamation. Defamation law should not intimidate people into not seeking redress for grievances.

    Jan 20
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      Come on! The source is stayed first thing, ' the ostensible letter of Warren Farrell PUBLISHED BY BOB HIRSCHFELD, J.D. (who is not a lawyer) (anymore) on Steven D. Imparl (who is a lawyer)'s fully moderated men-law listserve.'
      Let me spell.it.out; it's published on a pro Farrell website

      Liz is addressing the email...what else would she be addressing?

      Liz isn't a who...duh! which is why Farrell looks ridiculous.

      clearly you've been provided with ample evidence, you are arguing moot points now...pulling a gish gallop, handwaving and presenting a chewbaca defense!

      Jan 20
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      *stated

      Jan 20
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      " by attorneys Robert McNeely and Cindy McNeely of Florida."

      Obviously they are attorneys. Presumably his attorneys.

      Jan 20
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      " Who are the "major leaders of the fathers' movement" other than Farrell himself?" not in the least bit relevant.

      Jan 20
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      " am confident that statements of that nature are routinely made in communications between clients and their lawyers. To claim that such communications are defamatory may be true, in a technical sense, but getting indignant about that fact of life is an exercise in futility."


      Most attorney client communication is not published by a third party on a public website, neither is it forwarded throughout a mailing list as some sort of "call to arms".

      Jan 20
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      " You and Farrell would both be better off if you took that on board. "

      Excuse me? You can't be seriously trying to insinuate that any of the opinions are MINE ! That's poor form and intellectually lazy. You asked for 'proof' I provided proof...my opinion is not represented anywhere within the posts.

      Jan 20
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    • consa

      The meaning and context of the long Email quoted above is not as clear or as obvious as you make it out to be. Refer the matter to your lawyer, or communicate with Farrell himself, via his YouTube channel,. I ask that you say nothing more to me, because I find this all baffling. You also have attributed to me all sorts of opinions and theories that I do not hold.

      Mar 5
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      You asked me specifically for proof... I gave it to you and answered your numerous questions. Your factious claim that I've mischaracterized you is a completely unsupported allegation which you use as a smoke screen because my claims about Farrell were supported.

      Mar 11
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      and the email isn't to me as stated numerous times. Why would I have a lawyer? or involve a lawyer in a publicly posted email I'm not involved with? You obviously have some fundamental flaw with your logic.please.troll.elsewhere

      Mar 11
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      and PS this is my story. so you asking me not to respond to your comments on my story is either the most arrogant or the most stupid thing I've heard of.

      Mar 11
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    • gypsyblu

      high five ^

      Mar 26
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