I am not currently a wife of a firefighter, but i am in love with one. I am still young and so is my firefighter. He just became a volunteer firefighter for his local fire department about 5 months ago. We used to spend so much time together until then. I love his ambition, determination and passion towards being a firefighter though I feel like its taking over his life. He is new and hasn't had many house fire yet but he never wants to go out with me any more. He waits around for that pager to go off. He wont spend a night at my place anymore because it would be "to far" and he doesn't want to miss a fire. I'm not sure what to say to him or if I should say anything to him. I don't want him to loss interest in me now that he has his fire department. Or am I just being silly to think this?