Deal With It!!I am a flirt. It is my personality. I won't be forced to change my personality. It has been stolen from me too many times. I have been molded to act a certain way in certain situations my whole life. One thing, I will always be is a flirt. This is by choice. I don't mean to hurt anyone's feeling with my flirting and most of the time it is innocent. I AM A FLIRT.
What people don't understand is the difference between personality and character. If they just realized this it would save so many relationships.
Personality is not who you are ethically or morally.. it has nothing to do with that. Why do people judge you like that.. Partners, friends, and friends of friends want to say: "She is a flirt, she is gonna cheat." Not So!! Cheating is a moral issue. Personality has to do with preferences. I choose strawberries over cherries. I choose loose clothes over tight clothes.. I choose EP over Facebook. Why because I like these things. This is my personal preferences. My personality.
My character does deal with my morals and ethics such as: I won't cheat, I won't steal, I am honest, I am grateful, I am loving, I am kind
Basically your personality is what people see on the surface but, they have no idea of the character that is within you. Only the people who are strong enough to put their own egotistical, jealous, selfish and controlling personalities to the side and get to know the inner character of another person will truly be able to be happy with the whole person.
So many people are fooled into toxic relationships mainly because they choose only to look at the personality and don't take time to get to know the character. In my case they see flirt and walk away not even realizing the great woman I am on the inside; For them, this is sad, because unfortunately they are the one who will lose a good thing. The next person who has the personality this person is looking for just may have a ***** living inside her.
Let me just say, there are a lot of beautiful people on the inside who are passed by because their personalities are seen as too flirtatious, "they must be a cheater". Whoever gets these beautiful souls, knows what a precious gem they have found ; )
WhiteWidowess 41-45, F 13 Responses 18 May 16, 2012