And I Won't Appologize For It Either!

To those that know me..well you already know this. I love to flirt. It makes me happy. Nobody I know has a problem with far as I know..... doesn't matter what the gender..if someone strikes my fancy I will flirt..but know heart is taken in RL and on EP.


Mwah Justin!! Love ya hon!!

luckypickle luckypickle
44 Responses Sep 6, 2009

I like fresh fruit in my smoothies and. I put a little honey in it before. I mix it all together.

*runs to Edie and dips her*

*smiles* thanks hon.

Well that last part was the best idea you've had all day hon. Please get off my story! GET OFF MY ******* STORY!!

"get to know someone before you can even make any sort of conclusaion, do you even have any qualifations, i'd like to know if you do. but i strongly doubt you even do. prove me wrong though."<br />
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Well Impulsive,<br />
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I'm actually basing my comments on previous experience with a roommate who was diagnosed with this disorder. She didn't see it as a problem either, despite her frequent suicide attempts and numerous other self-destructive behaviors. When I tried to talk to her, her usual response was to accuse me of "jealousy", which HER therapist advised me is a common belief of those suffering from her disorder. <br />
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Especially when I was forced to evict her, which she insisted was because only because I was SO "jealous" of her, and refused to believe my landlady made me do it because of the numerous complaints from my neighbors, who witnessed so many cars coming and going from our house, they falsely accused her of being a drug dealer. She wasn't. That's just how many men she had sex with a day. I did attempt to explain this to our landlady, she didn't care. My former roommate never spoke to me again. <br />
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The reason I ended up visiting her therapist was because of the guilt I felt in having been forced to kick her out--after which, several years later, she succeeded in committing suicide. In doing so, she left behind her young son to grow up without a mother. During the time she lived with me, he spent more time with me than he did with her, and I loved him dearly. He was only 7 years old when his mother took her own life. <br />
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Her therapist couldn't talk to me about HER specifically, so instead, she explained the disorder to me in detail, to help me gain a better understanding and which did in fact help. <br />
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The reason I brought up bragging about alcohol? Well, my husband was a full-blown alcoholic when I met him, and that's what he did. He also attempted suicide twice. I didn't offer him much in the way of sympathy, but rather refused to date him until after he completed rehab and could prove to me that he could remain "clean and sober" and he has too, 28 years and counting. <br />
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I'm a strong believer in the value of therapy, but hey, to each his own.<br />
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I will not engage in the discussion by commenting further.

Lol!! I must put a leash on my man then!! LOL

my Billy Bob teeth will make any man in earth fall in love with me ya know!!<br />
This is a my lucky charm.<br />
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*smiling with my teeth gleaming*

Oooh very sexy hon. Will dream of them tonight!

What do ya think about my billy bob teeth mam?<br />
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*wink at pickle*

Hey where did it go? I commented after it too!<br />
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Um...look up ^ about three comments ago!<br />
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Haha you are a true sweetie topay!

And please don't attempt to play the "jealousy" card on me too.<br />
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People in *THE ZOO* always said I was the next *ADRIANA LIMA* (if she was a donkey though).<br />
Look at my avatar!! I'm *GENUINE*!! And I love my *BILLY BOB TEETH*<br />
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hey where is my comment? nah I post it again :P<br />
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(I think ya ride my Time Horses Pickle!! Look your comment is upper my comment)<br />
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OMG I am so envious of your billy bob teeth. I must have plastic surgery to look just like you! ROFLMFAO!!!

Hello missed all the fun *rolls eyes* lol!

Well congrats hon..and please get the **** off my story...I have no patience right now for this ****. Notice I have said PLEASE!!! But hey...I got a free psych eval out of this! Yay!!<br />
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Preach on IMP!

I am a flirt!!<br />
I was flirting luckypickle, rachelr, Impulsive, bukoden, tyrrmack and everyone in my circle LMAO<br />
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By the way... is flirting Pink Bunny count too?

"Bragging about your inappropriate behavior is about the same as an alcoholic bragging about their ability to drink a case of beer a day. Doesn't require any special talent to spend all day swilling beer, much less would most people consider it an accomplishment. Neither does flirting."<br />
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bragging? lol the same could be said for you and you're comment on the jealousy card<br />
bragging about you're amazing genes.<br />
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i wouldn't call this bragging at all, she was just stating what she liked<br />
oh ok so when someone writes, i have depression<br />
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they are bragging about it<br />
"look at me, my life is shittier than yours!" <br />
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get to know someone before you can even make any sort of conclusaion, do you even have any qualifations, i'd like to know if you do. but i strongly doubt you even do. prove me wrong though.

You know, this was the first post of yours I ever read, and after your reaction to my last response, looked at your profile. Cutting? Depression? Poetry about being alone, and thoughts of suicide? I'm sorry if you feel I was trying to insult you, but until I read your profile just now, I had no idea that you're already in the group here for "borderline personality disorder." <br />
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FYI, my husband and I ARE in therapy, to deal with the problems created by his family, who we've been forced to institute the "no contact" rule with, as the only remaining means of protecting ourselves from harm. The intense anger and hatred I feel towards them for placing us in this position is also something I'm working on in therapy. I already know this is something I can't overcome on my own, and feel no shame in seeking help. <br />
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It's no me or anyone else here that you need to either "apologize to" or "make happy." But you already know that, don't you?

*bows to imp* :P

well thanks for the great advice. this is just another great example, of arrogance, selfishness, igrnorance, you dont know pickle at all, i'd like to know if you even have any qualifications? and the whole jealousy card come on, you just wanted to get it out there that you was this "quinessential tiny little blonde, with great big knockers." go and tell it to someone who gives a ****

Lol!! I don't get it either! PMS perhaps...why don't they start a I hate luckypickle group then!

WTF? The jealousy card? Are you a shrink or do you need one? whatever you say doc. *salutes you* I bow to your wisdom and will change my ways to make you happy. And I'm happy your **** doesn't stink and you are so wise. Good for you. *tosses you a cookie* Now if you don't mind....go analyze someone who cares. Bye.

Really? So you admit that you were diagnosed as being "borderline" when you were 12 years old? Well then, I'm not surprised you don't see it as a "problem"--as that's the very nature of the disorder. Individuals suffering from this disorder often find it difficult to distinguish between reality, and their own delusions of the world and how they are perceived by others. <br />
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Bragging about your inappropriate behavior is about the same as an alcoholic bragging about their ability to drink a case of beer a day. Doesn't require any special talent to spend all day swilling beer, much less would most people consider it an accomplishment. Neither does flirting. <br />
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A wide variety of species on this planet "flirt" as part of the mating ritual. It's not a "talent", it's an inborn biological instinct, part of our genetic makeup that helps ensure survival of our species. Pretty much everyone at some point in their lives "flirts" -- it's how we attract a mate. It's certainly how I attracted mine. <br />
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But I limit my flirtations now to my husband, out of respect for him, our marriage, myself, and also, out of the respect I hold for other people's relationships as well. <br />
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And please don't attempt to play the "jealousy" card on me. I have incredible genes, and was born the quinessential tiny little blonde, with great big knockers. I've had more men literally walk into walls doing a "doubletake" at me. But even when I was single, I limited my "flirtations" to men who were single, available, and in whom the interest was mutual. I've always had more self-respect and consideration for the relationships of others, as well the incapacity for cruelty to desire to cause pain by "leading anyone on" if I wasn't genuinely interested in them. It's not something I'd do to anyone. <br />
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Almost every single person on this planet at one point in their lives or another exhibits almost EVERY trait or symptom of mental illness, but it is only when one or several specific traits/behaviors/symptoms becomes highly pronounced, inappropriate, and/or pervasive that the person is classified as having an actual "mental or personality disorder." <br />
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The real truth is this disorder stems from low self-esteem and lack of self-respect. Sufferers often become suicidal and frequently engage in other self-destructive activities such as severe depression, promiscuity, "cutting" and self-medicating with drugs and/or alcohol. <br />
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Although treatment was once considered relatively ineffective for this disorder, new treatments and medications are now available that offer both help, and hope. I sincerely hope you will consider seeking some help.

Um..what does that have to do with this really? And thank you......I was diagnosed when I was 12...I've done the reading. But that's a little off topic hon.

That's nice. You might wish to do a little reading up on what is called "borderline personality disorder."

Cute story :)

i agree hip, besides you dont even know pickle so i dont see what grounds you even have to say anything about her being closed minded and selfish.<br />
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never change pickle, dont let these blind fools who can't see beyond themselves get you down pickle, theres still good ppl out there.<br />
stay strong<br />

It's fine to have an opinion, but why must some people be so mean in voicing there opinions? I don't get it!<br />
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As long as you're not hurting anyone, continue on being your sweet & open self my dearest~<br />
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:-) said goodbye already. <br />
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Awww are so sweet. I thank you for that. I will do so *salutes you* lol!

Lmao!! Forever you crack me up.<br />
<br /> looking for a fight of what?

To be completely honest..I am married and my hubby really doesn't care about this. He knows and I would never lie to him.<br />
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Oh PMS much hon? Oh yes..I am selfish a narrow minded..yeah....thanks for that hon. :)<br />
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Well have a nice life hon. Best wishes. Bye.

:) thanks lilly!!

Well I'm glad that you feel that way hon.....really it's not skin off my back..good day to you..have a nice life.<br />
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I am not afraid hon...perhaps you should think before you type.

A "flirt" is someone WHO IS AFRAID 'to get CLOSE to<br />
another person. They "pretend" (feign) Interest; BUT THEY ARE "REALLY" TOO IMMATURE to be a friend.

Do you add honey or sugar?

Yummm they go so well in a smoothie!


*looks in mirror* Oh no!! I really need to pluck!<br />
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*melts* awwww.

You are the only person that can get a blush out of me!! mwah!!

*giggls* awwwwww!!!!

well you are a mushy...flirty kind of girl ms pickle...and I love you truly for it<br />
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Gigantic hugs and Mushy kisses

Awwwwwww. This could get mushy!!

:-) paco35

hahahhaha, and i love flirting with you too pickle ;)