Unhappy 2nd Wife

I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now she is suddenly better than me.  My hubby just keeps quiet about.  Someone out there please give me some advice, i am so angry that i am feel like i am going to burst.

lynette2006 lynette2006
2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

The advise should be to your husband, he needs to grow some and man-up to his parents, not taking up for his wife is just not right.

Having Evil in-laws myself, It seems as though they will dislike whomever their son is with,you said that they treated her badly when they were together,and now that they are seperated they treat her good,well I believe that the reason they act this way towards her now is not because she is better than you in any way,shape or form,she is simply not the "enemy" anymore--another female that a controlling mother in law cant accept is capable of "caring" for her son just as well if not better than her.<br />
Please dont let them get to you,and remember how you stated that they get along sooo well now?? well just keep in mind that misery loves company,try not to let them bring you down.