I'm gay, and I liked this guy at my school, Tom. I'm not completely out yet, i haven't told my parents, but a lot of people know. He was really nice to me, and we had fun telling jokes to each other. I thought it was kind of like "meant to be." I told my friend about him, and she told me to talk to him. The very next day, Tom and I run into each other. We started texting, and the next day, I told him i was gay and asked if he was. He got really mad at me and said that he wasn't (btw, everyone knows he is cuz he's done stuff with guys before). He said "f uck off, homo," "you're a f aggot," "get a life, q ueer," and "go get hit by a car." I never felt worse than i did for the next couple days. I'm hoping that the reason he got mad was just because he's scared to admit to anyone who he is. The other day, my friend told me that Tom told her he was bi. Now i don't know if i should feel happy that he's coming out or sad because he still hasn't told me he is. nor has he apologized. I don't know what to think. I really want him to be the guy i started to like. Whenever I see him in school, my heart stops, and I can tell he avoids me...kind of like he's afraid of me or something. I've never been kissed (by either sex), and i really wanted Tom to be my first kiss. What should I do?