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Two Girls Holding Hands.

So as you know, im also a girl in love with a girl. Im more than mature for my age, and ive only truly been in love with one guy, a guy who i still share feelings for today, as does he. As i progressed through high school, i found the guys to be so immature and careless about education and later discovered the guy i loved was in a new relationship. i felt lonely even though i had friends. but then...i met her. she was my best friend, literally we were two complete different people but we somehow clicked. a couple of months later, she confessed she had been liking me since we met, this girl is beautiful not to mention. so i was like a bit creeped out because its against my morals to date another girl, but i spent the night at her house hoping we'll straighten things out, unfortunately everything led another way and now we've been in a relationship for two years. as time went by, i noticed a change in her...she was very jealous, but i spent everyday with her. problem is that im deeply attached to this girl, but i have higher expectations for myself. i believe i deserve a husband, children, a family, and its really hard to let go of her, i sometimes even wish to spend my life with her, and i dont like to wish that. so one night my ex called me, poured his heart out and has been trying to see me. a guy i had been in love with for more than three years...im confused, unsure of what to do. i love my girlfriend to death regardless of the times she's hurt me, i wish there were more like her and its a shame a girl can exceed a mans standards...but the one guy i love, is at the palm of my hands, he knows about me and her and doesnt judge me about it he understands, but my gf hates him to death.....i really need advice.
TheGroovalogistGirl TheGroovalogistGirl 16-17 10 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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Um... I'm young, don't know if I could give you the right type of advice but, its like this :if the girl TRULY loves you, shell understand and let go of you.... Once she does , yes her world will fall apart but she'll be happy to see you happy, now I wouldn't want that to happen to her but because you don't love her enough, you shouldn't stay with her. I'm sorry if you don't agree but had you truly loved her you'd never even think of leaving her, ... Go back to the guy but yes, don't hurt her allot ;-)

Stay with the girl.

It depends, because you said the girl hurt you. Did what the girl do hurt you more than what happened in your relationship with your ex? Choose based on what relationship you liked better, not just because she's a girl. You can still have a family with another girl, you know.

Good luck with whoever you choose, I wish you the best! :)

I am a guy with a crush on a guy and girl all i can say is stay with the girl its what seems right if you feel that way about her

I am a guy with a crush on a guy and girl all i can say is stay with the girl its what seems right if you feel that way about her

Stay with the girl ... i can relate to your story .... and i really choose the girl i love :)

Stay with the girl ... i can relate to your story .... and i really choose the girl i love :)

stay with the girl no one can trust boys they just care about sex and that is all

I would say go for the boy...

Stayy with thee girlll!!!