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No Reason To Doubt It

Yeah, I'm bi, and I tend to favor girls. Reason for this? I seem to be able to connect with them easier than with men. How'd I find out I was bi? My first (yet unrequited) love is a girl. I refused to accept this and was in denial for a while, but I couldn't hold out for very long. It would be like denying a part of who I am....and that didn't sit well with me. I still love her, but I've found the strength to move on. Drowning in sorrow isn't going to help me. So, now I'm trying to connect with other women (and some men) with the same interests as me, with a good personality in general of course. So far? I've been failing miserable. As I've said before.....I have horrid luck at love. It just doesn't come natural to me. Hahaha, guess I'll still be single for a while!

It's cool though. At least now I have a better understanding of who I am. I wasn't sure before, but now I'm positive. It's like having an an anvil finally be lifted off your chest....you can breath easily now, and suck in all the fresh air you want!
deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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I copletely understand as i am going through the same thing. I was in denial for such a long time that when I fell in love with one of my close friends i couldn't ignore it anymore. I remeber feeling like i was being pulled out of the shadows and now i had to face my feelings. There is no denying that I'm in love with her and therefore I can no longer deny that I've had feelings for girls before.

I recently accepted what I was too

Now it's time to understand what's happening w/ you and relationships... no matter if they are female or male... something is keeping you from meeting someone who makes you happy.. bad luck? i don't think so... but meeting emotionally mature people these days is hard ..

I've always favored girls more than guys. Fortunately, my husband doesn't mind...

i also go in favor w/ girls...<br />
oh wait, im a lesbian! haha

I know how you're feeling