I get some things but then some things are a universal girl thing. But I have never been into peer pressure, I don't care about the latest trends, I'm not obsessed with what I look like, I am not a feminist, I am not obsessed with boys, I am not shallow (no I dont think all girls are shallow), I am not ditzy (no I don't think all girls are ditzy either but it is a common trend), I have no interest in being the "it" girl, I just don't get how girls can think and behave the way they do. I have never felt the need to do something just because everyone else is doing it, and yet girls today seem to only care about fitting in, and being one of the crowd. I've always just done my own thing and often been ridiculed for it but I just never cared. Why do girls care so much about what other people think? I read stories on here from girls who are younger than me and they have ooh soo many issues and for me the answer just seems so easy, be true to yourself and ignore the people that aren't mature enough to accept you. I just don't get the problem, I never have.