I Am a Girl With Curves

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By: Mahal1023

Written on January 6th, 2011

All the women in my Dad's and my Mother's side of the family are built with pretty straight silhouettes. I am the only one that has hips....even after having children they all don't have hips. Growing up this always made me feel bigger and fatter. Now that I'm older....I don't care anymore.

By: Mahal1023

Age: 46-50 , Female

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84 responses

aliwine

I have no hips even after my giant son- jealous =[

Apr 3
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LG76

I know just how you feel. I've always had a booty....as a child my family's nickname for me was "boulder buns". LMAO. I used to hate it and was always self-conscious about my butt. Now I don't mind so much...kind of makes up for not getting boobs, lol ;) Nice story...I'm glad you have learned to embrace your curves. xo

Apr 2
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- Mahal1023
  I'll trade you for your bodacious booty for my big boobs. :) lol!!
  
  Apr 2
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NorthernMan1966

You won in the end....You are the one with the curves!

Mar 31
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- Mahal1023
  lol!!! Thank you. It was never a competition. It was a self conscious thing when we were all together.
  
  Mar 31
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- NorthernMan1966
  lol...yes, I do understand....but you still won...woohoo!
  
  Mar 31
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holloway64

hips only make a woman sexier.

Mar 16
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Bythelight0fthemoon

curves are always beautiful, even when the fashion magazines say they are not

Mar 12
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redmaple

hips are GOOD:)

Feb 21
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Gabe9389

"straight silhouettes" sounds like a boy. "Curves" sounds sensuous and female. Beauty and attraction begins and ends in our hearts. Your beauty is right here for all of us to see and it is stunning.

Feb 19
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- Mahal1023
  Awwww.... Gabe.... thank you. I'm a loss for words.
  
  Feb 19
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Boxersoff4u

everyone is built differently and there is no reason to feel bad about it !

Feb 19
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- Mahal1023
  Thank you. It was just difficult to have to grow up around my cousins and my sister at times. Im so over it now.
  
  Feb 19
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- Boxersoff4u
  and now ? you get on with your sister and cousins ?
  
  Feb 19
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- Mahal1023
  We live in different time zones so we don't all get together that often. Seriously, even if we did, I'm so over it. :)
  
  Feb 19
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nudistguyny

Not a thing wrong with hips. Personally I am curvy women more interesting then sticks figures. Feel good about it. I know I find it very interesting. <3

Feb 17
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- Mahal1023
  Thank you for your positive thoughts.
  
  Feb 17
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affinityterra

Women are supposed to have curves. I bet yours are beautiful.

Feb 16
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- Mahal1023
  Awww.... thank you.
  
  Feb 16
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- HStoner
  I think AT said it correctly.
  
  Feb 16
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BrighterThantheSun

I started liking my hips when my 18 year old daughter began complaining because she doesn't have hips like mine. I don't feel like some old mom now.
Recent comments from some men help too. ;)

Feb 16
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- Mahal1023
  I was never fat as a kid. I was shapely and a bit fuller than my younger sister and our cousins. Being around them made me self-conscious because they were slimmer and built differently. My mother also would always jokingly called me fatso so that didnt help either.
  
  Feb 16
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- BrighterThantheSun
  Some of our mothers were just so wonderful that way. I completely understand.
  
  Feb 16
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- Mahal1023
  Thank you... while I sincerely feel blessed that mine is still around.... much hasn't changed with her. Im still the fat one. Im at peace with it.
  
  Feb 16
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- BrighterThantheSun
  Mine just watches what she says so I visit. Helps to move 650 miles away :D
  
  Feb 16
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- Mahal1023
  My mother is half an ocean away and she can still say something that stings so deep within the first few seconds of our conversation. And no, she doesn't watch what she says. My own 13-yr old daughter had to put her in her place in which I had to punish her. I have tried in so many ways. I love my Mom and dont want to spend the years we have together fighting so I take what she says quietly.
  
  Feb 16
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CrazyWaterSpring

Women are supposed to have curves. It took you time, along with pain and frustration, to get so you don't care. Bigger hips=more to love and spoil. Yes, that includes taking her to the store and patiently waiting while she shops.

Feb 16
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- Mahal1023
  CWS.... how I wish that you had a single twin brother just like you that lived near.
  
  Feb 16
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Wondrin2Day

Hips are never a problem

Feb 16
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- Mahal1023
  Well they are to a woman when you constantly have to buy a bigger size pair of jeans to fit them in. :)
  
  Feb 16
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- Wondrin2Day
  This is all a matter of perspective. I like "The more the merrier"
  
  Feb 16
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rwbsonnyjr

Wish I could see them sexy hips.

Feb 3
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HStoner

Curves are much more attractive than straight lines, especially on a lady.

Dec 12, 2012
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ambroseguy80

You have nothing to be ashamed of! Curves are beautiful... :-)

Oct 23, 2012
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blackdiamond38

Embrace who you are and **** em all.
*hugs*

Oct 5, 2012
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imo353

For those who prefer a set of hips that are as parallel as a sheet of plywood, well too bad because they are not able to recognize, or appreciate a true woman. Human mankind would not be here if it were not for those swivel hips. Just my biased opinion folks....

Sep 13, 2012
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suaave

It feels good to know that i'm not the only one who felt this way. My whole family has a more lean, thin figure and i have a much more different body build. I always compared myself to the family and became self-conscious about my figure. And now, i'm slowly becoming more confident :)

Aug 22, 2012
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mrnature

Theres a reason a model is called a "Model", they are replicas of the real thing. Once a man overcomes society's programming of what should attract him, once he lives life a little and experiences relationships with many different women, of all types and sizes, he comes to understand that beauty emanates from within and curvy softness is a big plus, never let someone else determine your self worth or value~ take it from me, the curvy woman is greatly desired~but then, to an open minded man, all women are!

Jul 5, 2012
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- Mahal1023
  I totally agree with everything you say but at times its hard not to let it bother you.
  
  Jul 5, 2012
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pixelita

CURVES ROCK Girl!!! :-)

Mar 1, 2012
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- Mahal1023
  Generally I know that but the rare occasions I'm standing in the same room with my peeps, they all look cute and petite and I just look big boned. lol!
  
  Mar 3, 2012
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- imo353
  You, as well as others "Hipster" gals are simply woman of substance. Again, just my biased opinion.......
  
  Sep 13, 2012
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missygirly

Hey i think hips are great, i like a woman with a womanly figure. of course that is only window dressing having intelligence and being a nice person are qualities that i find most attractive.(sense of humor is nice too) By the way Ep suggested we would make good friends. i would add you to my circle if you like and hopefully you would add me to yours.

Dec 27, 2011
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donflint

At 44 you have the perfect body. I admir a women that is as beautiful as you. And you are admired.

If you would like to be an epal just get that sex body in gear and write donflint55@yahoo.com

Dec 1, 2011
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- Mahal1023
  Donflint, I'm assuming you're making this statement based on my avatar. I'm sorry to disappoint but thats not me.
  
  Dec 1, 2011
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- donflint
  Well I'd still like to know you. Believe me every women I date isn't a ten. But they still like to have sex for hours on end.
  
  Dec 1, 2011
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consa

Women are supposed to be fleshy. Flesh is power. Flesh is how our foremothers stayed alive when food was lacking. Classic magazine erotica only showed svelte women. (June Palmer in the UK was a curious exception.) The internet has revealed the truth about what real women are like.

Sexless marriage. I hang my head in sorrow. EP is the only place on the web where I've read people admit to that. My sister was in that sitch for a number of years, but when she finally sued for divorce, he finally admitted he was gay.

Sep 8, 2011
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- Mahal1023
  I'm sorry to hear about your sister. My Ex wasn't gay. He just didn't want me.
  
  Dec 1, 2011
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- consa
  My sister has richly deserved her fate. I was sexless for 5 years, and did not deserve it.
  
  Dec 1, 2011
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MasterTickler

Everyone dosn't like skinny. I like hips. :)

Aug 20, 2011
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- Mahal1023
  Thanks MasterTickler. The men that I have been with don't seem to mind it either. :)
  
  Aug 20, 2011
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Mahal1023

funguy At this age not only do I have curves nut have lumps and bumps that my sis and cousins dont have so I even look bigger . :(

Aug 5, 2011
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funguy1326

Mahal, There is absolutely nothing wrong with a curvy woman. I fully appreciate a woman's curves and I think that is what makes them a woman. If I wanted skinny & no curves I would probably turn gay and go for guys but that sure isn't happening.

Aug 5, 2011
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stlmo8

I'm the only one in my family with large breasts. I always wondered if Mom and Sis were jealous. Hahaha.

Aug 1, 2011
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- Mahal1023
  stlm8 Im sure they were. :) My sis is fully loaded on top with no hips. Some of my cousins are like that too.
  
  Aug 5, 2011
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Mahal1023

Thedarknight...thank you. Didn't see your comment.

Jcue1976 working on the attitude still. I know I'm not ugly duckling but not feeling like a swan these days either. I'm a work in progress.

Jul 28, 2011
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jcue1976

being sexy is an attitude not a body shape,,,besides i feel sexier than ever,,,i'm a plus size girl and i wouldn't change it to be a skinny mini who dreams of getting a breast implant to get what i got.

Jul 28, 2011
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