My Text Message To My Husband This Morning.....

Thank you x

Men often don't catch hints. Generally, we don't understand subtlety and we can't read minds. I think you handled this wonderfully and your husband's response shows he is willing to try to give you what you need. Every man should be as lucky as your husband and I are to have partners so eager to please and submit to them while being led to be the best women you can be.

Well thank you for your lovely thoughts and supportive words. It's really nice to hear from a mans point of view too.

aww ladies isnt he sweet :)

Yes, you are a lucky girl :-)

thank you i feel lucky :)

Hi.we have talked a bit now also and I am sure he knows exactly what I am after ;-)
I have made plenty of comments about women that should be put over their husbands knee in conversations we have...for example if he is having a moan about a woman on tv or about our mothers being a right pain !
Last night we were walking the dog and I was a bit moody with him , he swatted my bottom twice as we walked along ( to my surprise!) telling me off or being in a bad mood with him.
So...hopefully a start :-)))) he then said that when we get home he will put the rubbish out and I can clean mud off dog, but I started saying that I can't do that as I have other jobs I really need to get on with...only he would not let me talk, the minute I started saying 'no i can't ' he stopped me going any further by interrupting me saying 'NO' and kept on doing that til I have up and shut up :-)
I will take a look at the website this evening - thank you.

Hi again Hav1. I've been thinking about your story a little more. There is a blog dedicated to the discussion of male led relationships from the point of view of the women who want and seek them. http://Takeninhand.com/ may be more in line with what you want than my previous suggestion which deals mostly with consensual spanking. I have included a hyperlink which if you click on it (I hope)will take you directly to "Advice for women wanting their marriage to become Taken in Hand. It seems to be in keeping with your desire to be submissive to a more dominant husband. There are other women who feel this way and often find that they are misunderstood in our age of female emancipation from male dominance. Good luck. Let me know how it goes. Some women find this sexy and fulfilling but not necessarily just at bedtime. They describe it as a lifestyle with rewards for both partners. They discuss issues of dominance and consent specific to this way of life which is theirs by choice even if it is not very fashionable in our age of women's lib.
http://www.takeninhand.com/category/categories/advice.for.women.wanting.their.marriage.to.become.taken.in.hand/

Hi will. Thank you for that. I am a frequent visitor to the taken in hand site. I think that things are progressing quite nicely at the moment. I have other stories which probably explain where I am at and how things are going....please have a read if you fancy x

Okay Hav1 I will. Actually I just read about your first spanking. Oooooh that's GOOD. But it's not the main thing for you is it? You seem to enjoy the feeling of having a strong and loving man take charge of you. I think you're after the brain rather than the pain. Am I wrong?

A bit of both will do nicely will999 ;-)

The man has to have a gooood brain to bring on the pain!!! Ehhh? lol :o)

Yes maybe lol !

Any clumsy oaf who does not know his own strength can give you a dislocated joint or a black eye but it takes a mind with that special extra something to put you over his knee and spank your bottom whether you have been good or bad just because it turns him on! It's the mind that matters.

Ha ha yes , my friend told me to BCWYW4 too when I started dating him! Can't say I have regretted what I wished for yet :-)

Thanks....yeah via text like a couple of kids lol !

Hey.... At least he will txt with you. My husband refuses to even read a text LOL.

Oh no...we text more than talk on the phone. He hates talking on the phone .

Maybe try it ? It is a bit of a risk but at least you get your message across in black and white, and it saves any embarrassment you may have. I just couldn't sit and say all that face to face with my husband - he would have died too lol ! Good luck...let us know if you do :-)

Yeah, my husband would be the same, and I'd probably end up stuttering like crazy...lol...I'll let you know!

Haha no problem, use what ever helps, and thank you.....I was trembling writing the text !

I feel like a love sick teenager :-))

I know what you mean! Just don't get feeling down when you hit some plateaus. You will be hot and heavy and passionate, and then sometimes reality swoops in and things get dull... but just keep on submitting!! It will work out great! Takes time to establish a new routine. So happy for you! :O)

Thank you for your lovey comments. My text has certainly got me the answer I was hoping for from him but now only time will tell. I personally am impatient and hate uncertainty so I decided to take the bull by the horns and hope for the right answer. I think I would have died if he hadn't responded so positively lol.

Well I am going to be very excited and interested on how things will go over the next month or so .... How he will react to things, will he be more dominant with me ? I don't expect miracles overnight ( as much as I may want one ), I know that it will probably be the little command here and there for starters x

i know, its extremely exciting. just one piece of advice from my own experience...dont be over-anxious. try to be quiet and observant and calm. probably He will try out little things, respond accordingly without going overboard. as He gains confidence in Himself, well.....remember.....you asked for it! relax and enjoy and have a little sense of humor with it! all the best.

Haha yes, let's hope I see some action ;-)

Good advice kitt, thank you x

Thank you x....I hope it will be !