My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. I cook, clean do the laundry, take care of the kids, and work. That part I don't mind. It is something I've always done. Just showing that I do contribute. I have no problem with it, I enjoy seeing my husband pleased when everything is taken care of. But today, I told him that we were low on money and to just be mindful on what he spent until he gets paid tomorrow. I take care of all the bills, the checkbook, grocery shopping, etc... now I never spend money on myself unless needed. I recently got my hair done per His request, but his mother did it, so it didn't cost us anything. Well, when I told him to watch what he spent he went on a rant as to why we didn't have much money left. I told him what bills I paid and how much they were and anything that I spent towards groceries. Now mind you, his friend lives with us while he is going through a split up with his wife, and pays nothing. I told my husband that I hate feeling as though he feels like I spend all of his money and he could do the finances if he wanted to see where the money goes....no answer....just needed to vent and hoping for some advice. I love him and appreciates all that he does for us, but am sick of arguing over money.