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My First Day Of Husband Led Chores And Rules !

By: Hav1
Written on February 4th, 2013
Over the weekend my HOH drew up a planner for me which lists all the chores and jobs I should be doing each day throughout the week. It also lists my RULES to help keep me reminded. He has even stated what time he would like me to get up in the mornings and also my bed time. I know lots of people would be shocked by this but I did ask him if he could do me some sort of list so that I know what he thinks I should be doing whilst he is away all week working very long hours for us. so going one better, he made a weekly planner.

My husband has also decided that he would like me to exercise more and as he is a cycling fanatic he has put me in two cycling sessions each week.

So my first of the week is right now this morning, so wish me luck as I have 6 miles to do....which he had me do last week and my bottom is still tender lol ! After my ride I must go see him in his local office and he has told me I will get my first spanking !!!!!

I am trying not to get too excited as I do not think he will go through with it.......lets wait and see......
By: Hav1
Age: 41-45 , Female
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  • Rachellouisedavies
    Rachellouisedavies

    Those sound great rules Ma'am

    Feb 6
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    • Hav1
      Hav1

      Thank you Rachel x I am trying had to stick to them. I have other ' one off ' jobs to do each week too. This week I have to phone sky and sort repair of satellite box, sort through a load of stuff I have dumped in the middle of our garage, sort through the deep freeze

      Feb 6
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    • Rachellouisedavies
      Rachellouisedavies

      Do you have a dress code as well Ma'am?

      Feb 6
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    • Hav1
      Hav1

      No, he says I can wear what I want. However I did voluntarily throw away ALL my pyjamas and nighties because he has made it clear over the years that he hates them. So I have had lots of fun buying sexy knickers and cami tops and little sexy nighties which I wear now instead.I have also made a point of wearing dresses more with sexy stockings and suspenders.
      I have a list of rules that he has also written for me last weekend:-

      Sex on demand

      No chopsing (nagging/answering back)

      Light off at bed time (10.30pm) can read only via iPad

      Only to give kids one choice of meal

      If kids do not Finnish dinner then I cannot give them anything else

      He is to discipline kids ( any changes I must discuss with him )

      No undermining him

      I will receive monthly housekeeping from him

      He will handle all other finances

      All decisions to be made by him - after discussion with me if appropriate

      Any changes to planner/chores to be discussed with him first

      Feb 6
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    • Rachellouisedavies
      Rachellouisedavies

      wow they are firm but also really good rules!

      I have been raised to wear skirts adn stockings as Dad says they are more ladylike.

      I've never heard anyone else saying chopsing before except my Dad!! He's from Wales.

      How does he discipline the kids and is it hard that you have to wait until he is there?

      Rachel

      Feb 6
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    • Hav1
      Hav1

      We live in wales...my pet name was 'chops' but now he calls me 'ex chops' lol.
      I am too soft with the kids and he has always been a lot firmer. He has never hit them though but we have had lots and lots off arguments over disciplining them.

      I hate him being away every week and have never got used to it, that makes me horrible to him sometimes.

      Feb 6
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    • Rachellouisedavies
      Rachellouisedavies

      Wow, we go to Wales sometimes because my gran is there.

      It must be hard him being away, does he travel far? Dads are stricter lol, I get spanked and I think parents should be allowed that right.

      It've lovely you wear skirts adn stockings for him, I bet he appreciates that!

      Feb 6
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    • Hav1
      Hav1

      At the moment he goes to Europe every mon and back very late thurs night.I think dads are less patient than mums in general, although my mum was harder on me than my dad was.

      Feb 6
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    • Rachellouisedavies
      Rachellouisedavies

      Yes mammy is a bit less patient than Dad but when Dad does step in he does it very strictly!

      Feb 6
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  • MatildaEve
    MatildaEve

    Now this is a portion of the DD relationship I think I may keep from my hubby. He's getting so much better at leading and dulling out discipline on my tushie.... If I told him about letting him plan my day, I'd be all hard working and spent..... why would I want that??? lol..... I do think I need more structure.... but I don't want to build Rome in a day! I think I'll let this one slide... although he's been picking up new tips from somewhere? Hmmmmm.....

    Feb 4
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  • aquiet1
    aquiet1

    It's exciting now, because it's new. After the 3rd day.. Yikes. Remember you have to submit your time. That part gave me a big attitude until I decided to give my time to him. Watch out. :-)

    Feb 4
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    • Hav1
      Hav1

      Lol yes, I know what you mean but to be quite honest, the majority of things on the planner are the normal daily chores I do anyway. I think the only new things are cycling twice a week and two exercise sessions a week. Planning out the meals for the week instead of me going shopping most days as he feels that we throwaway loads of unbeaten food ( which we do!). And the other thing new for me is him setting me a bedtime in the week nights and get up time....I know that these have been issues with him for a long long time. I am a night owl and then of course I hate getting up lol. So this has been a sore point with him for a long time.

      Feb 4
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