An Enigma...

I am gay.  Why is that a big deal?  I have not once changed because of my sexual preferences.  Being gay is only a small portion of the person I am today.  I am an opera singer.  I am black.  I am native american.  I am caucasian.  I am a fan of Harry Potter books and Lord of the Rings books.  I love Romantic Comedies and men with facial hair.  I love to cook, soul food is my specialty.    See, you've already let the thought of my being gay pass right by you, because you're seeing that I am much more than just that. 

I want a relationship.  Though it seems that I am forever on a path of patience.  Why do I have to wait?  I am a great guy, decent looking, smart, talented, always helping others.  When's it gonna be my turn?  When? When?

Endyreul Endyreul
22-25, M
6 Responses Apr 5, 2007

the big deal is you are a ****** and you are going to rot in hell if you have a problem with it then call me personally at 903-690-6343

Think of it this way, if you are single, look at this as a blessing and not a curse. How many people do you know, really try and take the time to evaluate themselves, and be grounded so much as to who they are, and what that means to them. To figure out their shortcomings, and their successfulness?Take the time while you are single, to become stronger in your mind, and use that time to figure out what qualities you have that are great, and those that you can change. I believe everything (not somethings but everything) happens for a reason. I would say that your opportunity is for this reason, because when you are very comfortable with yourself, and accepted of yourself completely, the right guy will come along. I wish you all the luck in the world. God bless you buddy.

it's not a sexual "preference"....the word preference implies a choice, which it is not.

It sucks while you're waiting but you'll probably discover someone when you least expect it.

you sound like a great bloke and not like most of the gay men Ive come across who are all totally superficial.. you deserve someone wonderful and I hope you find him. :-)

Hey you! i can understand what youre saying....i myself do not understand why ppl have made sexual preference the key to a persons mind and soul..very unfair. I am a girl...a straight one too and I have one gay friend...he does my piercings and I have to say of all the guys i know or have been in touch with every gay person I meetis just amazing! full of life and each ahsa wonderful personality. Dear friend...I respect and admire you for who you are....soul food sounds great someday! :) dont you worry, you sound like a good guy and im sure theres a deserving man for you right around the corner....remember though, my advice, "HE WILL BE WORTH THIS WAIT" always here for you :)