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This Is Somewhat Good Somewhat Bad

It feels great to have these  deep feelings for someone .But its also  a bad thing because your expectations are high ...  there has to be a healthy medium between the two
starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 6 Responses May 10, 2007

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expectations are the wishes of a wanting soul....a loving soul gives first.

Reminds me of The Great Gatsby. I agree with you, but it never hurts to love them anyway<3

yeah, i think its really hard not to expect something from someone you love ...



but it would be much better if you just let the person you care about, love you the way they love you..

It's not always that easy. When you really care about someone, and then you're expectations are let down, it can really be crippling. You can't really think about anything else, just all the "wasted potential".

that is so true, specially when you think you married someone like you then with the years he becomes cold as ice, yeap that is what happend to my husband he doesnt act romantic since long long time ago.

aww, am not even married yet and ur getting my hopes down :((

Perhaps the trick is to not be disappointed when expectations are not met, but to focus on all the things you *didn't* expect that are wonderful and surprising and perhaps, in their own way even better. Romance is a guide, and a spirit, and a passion, after all. Not a series of itemised expectations, as far as I understand it! :D