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I Am a Hopeless Romantic

The Dead Of Civilization Love Is The Answer

By: Bolek
Written on November 15th, 2012
By: Bolek
Age: 41-45 , Male
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  • breakingdawnOne

    Whew ! That one had many parts but fit together smoothly you have a way of putting informatiom together that is attainable for all culture

    Feb 2
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    • Bolek

      Thank you.

      Feb 3
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  • pursuitoftheblackwidow

    Great assessment by the way. I think you have evaluated state of civilization (in matters of advancement initially attributed) through political system. It is logical to instinctively do so since an individual pursuit of happiness cannot healthily be sought without considering the general. My opinion though, as it has been in my exposition is that we are far from death.. not because there is consistent advancement but because we are in the midst of chaos were aftermath are often sources of solutions. I'm talking in terms sociological conditions composed of individuals struggling towards enlightenment. The seed of society is every human. If we are to believe that one is behaviorally perturbed.. clinically considered to be ill, then we are headed towards growing irreversible tumors. The impact of experience passed on from one to another will either deliver death or realization of a maturing civilization. Your practical association is of relevance which I gear away from as necessary. The argument on such is often irresolute. So my approach has always been sociological. Thanks for this article!

    Nov 22, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you for sharing your opinions with me.
      Thank you as well for letting me learn new words and meanings.
      I am glad that you agree with me.
      I believe that we are developing already towards better future for all.

      Nov 22, 2012
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    • pursuitoftheblackwidow

      Indeed..there's an absolution if we become conscious of others..

      Nov 23, 2012
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    • Bolek

      I am glad we share the same views.

      Nov 23, 2012
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  • Karen18597

    Huh

    Nov 20, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you for reading it.
      I would love to talk more with you.
      It is 4 am in Toronto. I am dead.
      Going sleep.
      I will send you message today.

      Nov 20, 2012
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  • Bythelight0fthemoon

    isn't death synonymous with rebirth. This is a story about the death of society but you talk about you utopia or rebirth of the society if you will. Some early writings describe rebirth as 'redeath'. Desire perpetuates life, which is synonymous with suffering, and which leads to death. I love your utopia and how you bring up both love and hate. They are both energies that can effect a persons body and soul....choose wisely!

    Nov 20, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Please look for reply on my page.
      Look for the story named "I" will never die.

      Nov 22, 2012
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  • Martha45

    Thought provoking and wonderfully written. Thanks for the mention of the Christian teachings of love first. More should remember this and maybe this will be a better place to live. In my family there is a saying that comes to my mind when someone does something evil or bad - Love the person. Hate the deed. I try to do that more often than not. Glad to see that is not just a Christian thing too. :) Thanks for the share and the food for thought!
    Hugs and God Bless you my sweet friend!
    Martha

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      I think this feeling is universal but for sure Love is foundation of Christianity.
      I think everybody knows but so few follow.
      Thank you.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • mistressmonique

    I'm sorry I haven't written in awhile. Nothing is happening in my life-I'm just behind in writing people. This is a very deep and thoughtful writing. I'll read it over again (and maybe more than once!). It's true that people are all so very different; the majority can think one thing is correct, but there is always going to be a few that think differently. I myself have love for everyone (even the man that almost killed me), but I don't believe love is the answer. I have love for everyone, and I know that there are many, many people who think like me, but there are also people that don't understand love. Maybe the answer is respect. I also really enjoy having contact with a varied group of people-like before my wreck I "hung out"with what could be called "the fast crowd". No, I didn't do drugs (besides nicotine and alcohol), didn't have lots of sex with many different guys (and girls)-I just "observed". My thing was just to get very well dressed (my fashion addiction) and then go somewhere (a nightclub or a party) and just observe. That's also why I'm so glad to have found EP. Some of my friends on here are really "out there", but I can accept it all-I'm just not that way myself, but if they are, then so be it. I just don't accept the old perverts. I'm also very glad to have you as a friend because you actually THINK-so few people around me do that these days.

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Yes we are all different and we have different views. I could respect you and disagree with you or I could love you and disagree with you. What would you prefer? And besides doesn't love has respect written in it ? Yes I think many people don't know how to love but still I wouldn't judge them. Thank you for your comment.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • Zoranna

    Beautiful. Impossible to love others if you hate yourself I feel. You are indeed an enlightened and wise soul....

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you for seeing me that way.
      I hope one day.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • loulan

    Just as I sit here thinking less of myself , you write a masterpiece which causes me to look deep Inside about so many different issues... I have hated a couple of people in my life, never realizing that I was hating myself ..I thank you for pointing that out..and you are right.. It's toxic...." Be the change " comes to mind.
    I don't mean for this to be an oral confession of my short-comings...

    I just want to thank you for all of your wisdom and valuable most helpful thoughts..... You inspire me to be a better person ...

    Peace, love and light ..

    Many Hugs to you .

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      We are all learning and I learnt a lot from you too.
      You are gentle and caring soul and thank you for that and all your support.
      Peace, love and light.
      More hugs.
      Thank you.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • boeing707

    good very philosophic

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you.
      I am so happy that you like it.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • honeysuckle23

    You are a very in depth person.........I agree with main topic, that civilization isn't dead, but it is different for every person.
    Everyone has a different perception of life.
    I am with you on a personal level, I hate change, I used to fear it, but now I try to cope with it. Maybe not so well but have accepted its a fact of life.
    I also agree that hatred will destroy ones self, it takes alot of effort to maintain hatred, which eventually destroys the inner self.
    You do make me really think on a different level with your stories, I thank you for that :)

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      My pleasure.
      I am glad that you like it.
      Thank you for your thoughts on this one.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • AmZiCo

    I am with you all the way..
    I don't think civilization is dead.. But I think we can create societies in which no one is happy.. A society should strive to let the people in it to be the best they can. Let people show their fully potentiel.. and of course love.. But you are right - that would be utopia.. there is a long way.. It is not the end, only the beginning..

    Nov 18, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you. I am with you all the time.

      Nov 18, 2012
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  • itsRogan

    Your stories always inspire me to love myself and others Peter:)) thank u so much<3

    Goodbls u more.

    Nov 17, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Wow. That is amazing.
      Thank you.

      Nov 17, 2012
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  • sweetme6222

    Wow Peter love this one your amazing you bring so much joy and pleasure into my life >>
    So true about loving yourself to be able to love others.. As well respect yourself to be respected >>> Lot's to think about >>>

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you.
      My pleasure as always.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • misery22

    Beautifully written as always Peter. Once again you have made me ponder about the world around me. Thank you. xoxo

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      My pleasure.
      Always.
      All for you.
      Thank you.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • Pebbles1982

    Bolek, I LOVE reading your stories! I have learned much from you my friend! Thanks!

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Wonderful.
      Thank you my friend.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • fo2los

    Thank you my friend about all your concerning , even if you didn't answer my question in the way i want , i appreciate that you tried to answer my question and worked hard for it , actually i'm sorry that i made you think all that time , i didn't mean that .second , what i meant by did civilization when it's people don't care about heir history, their language and different culture invade their thoughts.i guess if we want to build a dead civilization again and that us possible of course , we have to care about the most important thing and without it is impossible but by it we can achieve greatness and it's moral ( Ethics ) without it the country or the civilization even if it's developed and great in science will end fade away and fall. i's the main thing to rise any civilization then caring about science . Because the ethics (moral ) is so important it was the main reason or the main thing in Al islam , Al islam came to promote people's moral and every side of al islam religion like praying and going to mecca ( al haj) is to promote people's moral.


    i hope you understood my Point and your story benefited me a lot . THANK YOU

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Yes it was difficult, tough but after when it is done I can say I enjoy every second of doing it. Ethics and morals are extremely important. However imposing all the same morals for everybody it would be very unmoral in my opinion.
      Thank you my friend for your kind words it is a pleasure to discuss this topic with you.
      May God and All keep us safe and in peace.
      As long as we can talk like human of civilized world all is possible and alive I believe.
      Take care.
      I saw your pictures in your profile I think you are scientist yourself which is great.Science and morals it is another huge topic or what is more important science or morals or if these two things have to exist in opposition. However I believe that you would prefer that I will have some regular sleep hours at least for now.

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • fo2los

      Sleep well my friend :) , good night

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • LittleLena

    beautifully written

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • doggieschoice

    This is such a challenge for me to finish reading this one but I did.
    I think, what I understand the word "dead civilization" is dead culture for examples:

    Dead language
    Dead ancient beliefs and practices
    Destrcution of ancient buildings
    but most of all are mixed blooded or unknown roots

    Thanks for this post Peter!!!

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you for reading it.
      Yes each of us can see things and understand it differently and this is great.
      Again - yes, all what you said is important and should be take care for and everybody should have a chance to make his own choices.
      Thank you.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • abbylea

    Civilization has so many different meanings to cover, but I wouldn't say it was dead. Changing, yes.
    Love me before others you say? I think not, I tend to love others, but not me so much.

    Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Fill yourself with love to others and see how beautiful you are.
      Yes is changing all the time. I believe for better.

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • abbylea

      Yes for the better.

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Great.
      Please stay in touch.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • 1Booklover510

    Wonderful writing! I found the subject very interesting indeed and learned a lot from it as well, I especially liked what you said about loving yourself and then loving others is next. Such a simple concept and yet it often seems so hard to understand for a lot of us, The whole process starts with each of us, we all do take a part in it, I know I will be reading this several times and picking out more from it that I may have missed on first reading, Thank you for sharing it!

    Nov 15, 2012
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    • Bolek

      Thank you for going through it.
      Your comments always make me happy.
      Sometimes I think that you are an Angel.
      Thank you again.

      Nov 16, 2012
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    • 1Booklover510

      You are very welcome Peter, thank you for thinking I might be an angel.

      Nov 16, 2012
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  • Perksplayhot

    Civilization is dead. When all factors that actually were part of it,had died out in age. Now,that involves everything, from tangible and intangible. This can never be revived, once it has died but yes if it is dying and not yet dead, there is a possibility for its revival. Anyone person can lead for a new civilization by building values on historic or culture, but can not bring it alive.

    Nov 15, 2012
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    • Bolek

      I am much more optimistic.
      I think we are doing pretty good.
      I believe it will be even better.

      Nov 16, 2012
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