Men Are Not Mere Prizes

hey, thanks for dropping by,
and am happy to make you smile as well. ^_^

lol, they're not easily caught. :P, and it's odd i think.

I think it's a fine line, often times the nicer of a person of either sex, are more concerned with a lack of offending and okay with taking a more tactful route of making sure that it's best for both parties and not just a selfish gain to pursue a relationship or sex. This being said, often time's it comes off as a lack of interest. Lack of interests = fear of failure to the opposite party and a shared concern with losing something good. Thus the friendship zone is the most likely and suitable place until someone is truly settled with there life. Just perspective, would you say, plausible for the greater majority?

i see what you mean, i can totally relate,
the tactful route over the selfish gain,
maybe its the best reason why i always get the bestfriend zone.
oh well,
i have fears, but not lack of interest,. ^_^
thank you for sharing this,
nice thought, it's like you just read my mind, or recognized a pattern in me. ^_~

Speaking from personal experience is all ^.^''

lol, so you mean it's like just if ever, we'll just be friends. hahahahah. ^_^

haha, most likely help you find the man of your dreams, envy the relationship, then bump up my standards and look for the same elsewhere. It's like a wagering game where you are at a table, and you have 1 of 2 options. Take one slice, and remain as one piece which completes the whole, or option to take the whole and nothing will remain to return to.

i find the first sentence really sweet. lol. ^_^

:) cheers to love!

I'll raise a mug to that! :-)

mugs!!!!
sadly i broke my fave mug. >___< clumsy. just clumsy.

Awwww. :-( That's a bummer. I hate it when that happens! But it reminds me of a Zen Buddhist saying, on the impermanence of things and the principle of non-attachment to them: "It's okay to have a favorite teacup. Just realize that it's already broken." Hard to realize in practice, sometimes, though!

applied literally, i like this quote. :)

Yup! :-) You can apply it either literally or metaphorically...

wow, sir, thank you very much, the thought of it coming from a true-blooded writer is overwhelming. :))

thank you, also, cute cat. :))

thanks for rating up too. :))

thanks for your time in reading. :)

thank you for rating up maam. :)

ha?!. no it's fine. so what actually led you to my profile? :)

lol I'm not sure, just you have the name you have and well math so I doubt you're boring, well no one is, I'm confusing and ramble lol

hahahha. yeah, i'm kinda no-fun, sorry, and yeah, you'll be blocking someone if she doesn't apologize?
that totally confused me.

lol you're like my friend confused if it's not full she's so idk so many thoughts going through her mind. I was saying, this person on here who seems cool said I was "adorable" and it upset me I am trying my best I'm not weak like an adorable thing. And advice?

hahhaa. i see you don't want these adjectives coz it makes you feel weak.. .

hmm so you like being called "a hunk, or a strong guy, or a beautiful man, or a gentleman, or a hottie" is that what u want?

if it's a girl who told u ur cute and adorable, in my opinion she sees u as someone reliable, and respects u as u are, whom she thinks can handle long-lasting and serious relationships...

usually, okay, usually, not all , guys with those masculine superficial looks just play around.

if ud like to play around certainly look for someone who calls u hottie-they can give u a moment of happiness, but if ur serious look for someone who finds u adorable and mature-they can give u joy in whatever circumstances. :))

Lol great point:D I was so angry then for no reason lol (I think of adorable as pointless or something:/ or thought of it that way.) Thank you:D And I try to be but just the whole thing threw me lol

And I might have been one time but I was really only the loner(bullies and whatever, like I have friends now but idk they like me, I like me, all that really matters:D

your name itself says a lot, why being alone also matters. :), some things are better appreciated alone, so it's okay. :)

you confuse me a lot. :), hey, relax. .i'm really trying to figure out where i first met u, perhaps a question u asked and i responded? >_

thank you sir.
looking forward to hold his hand tight. :)

It's the best feeling! Good luck and before you know it he'll be around the corner

i see someone's totally in love. :), hehehehe.

If you'd knew me you knew I am. But have to admit that my online time is a time for me to escape and my offline time is total devotion. Long story but if you heard I would hope you understand

just feel free to share to me anything you'd like to share sir. :)