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Doesn't Anyone Really Believe In Love?

I mean real love. LOVE. When was the last time you heard of the best love story ever? That's what I want... a really good love story that it's written down and /or by word of mouth that generations in your family feel that warm fuzzy feeling and think wow. I'd love to see that story for real!

My forefathers and the love of their lives had that. The kind of men where they were made from the land that gave birth to them and courage flowed through their veins. Men of Integrity and Honesty in their dealings and talk.

They did not back down from a fight and gave their opponent a chivalrous duel/bar fight/brawl. lol.

All... in ... the... name.. of her honor. (sigh).

They fought for their country and believed in it.

Where is that guy? That would believe in that love like that with me? I'm a woman... and I would ... walk 500 miles to meet him. Walk. no car. no plane... walk. If that made him happy. Codependent? or psycho? No... REAL LOVE. Is that not worth it? Is it that extinct these days that it simply does not exist?

When was the last time a man laid his jacket down on a mud puddle for a lady to walk over? Or heaven forbid serenade her with song or other?

That's the love I want.. it's sad isn't it... to be a hopeless romantic.. always throwing ourselves in the thick of it and we don't just take a bull by the horns. We aren't' satisfied with that... heck no..we just lasso the entire herd and do it at once.

I dont want to be better love then lost. Why not better to love and just keep it? Isn't that possible?

(yeah I know the meaning of that saying so shut up).

How far... would you go for love? What is your great love story? And as hopeless as I am.. he's so simple what kind of man I want.

He's an alpha. With honesty and Integrity. He knows who he is and what he wants. Aye me.. back to reality. lol. (but that's so boring).

At least a hopeless romantic I'm an expert at walking on clouds. It's just the crash that kicks your *** at the end.
favestril favestril 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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I believe in love, its the reason for my loneliness. One day ill find some1 who believes in it too.

Same here

I know this sounds so negative...but no i do not believe in LOVE. I believe in lust and biological need, love is chemistry at work and I think we are more then just the chemistry of our minds projecting forth and it also is through the history of our lives, our experiences request from us.

I am a 17 year old kid and im a sophmore in high shcool theres this girl iv been madly in love with since i met her in 8th grade i asked her out and she said no but my feelings just keep getting stronger every tim i see her most guys like girls cause of her body but when i met her i liked her for who she was and would hate my self every time i thought of her lustfully but know all i can think about is having sex with her why am i feeling this way and whats this mean

I am a 17 year old kid and im a sophmore in high shcool theres this girl iv been madly in love with since i met her in 8th grade i asked her out and she said no but my feelings just keep getting stronger every tim i see her most guys like girls cause of her body but when i met her i liked her for who she was and would hate my self every time i thought of her lustfully but know all i can think about is having sex with her why am i feeling this way and whats this mean

Cute

I believe in true love. I found it in high school. I am twenty and I have the most amazing husband. Sure, he has never taken his jacket off and mud it over a mud pudddle for me. But, he has helped me down when I get stuck in high places. This love that your talking about won't happen like it does in the books. But, when you find it you will know. I don't know how to put it into worlds to explain how it feels. But, its not crazy to want it...and when you do finally have it you will know.

The biggest mistake we human beings make in relationships is to equate love with romance. True love has no romance, none. True love has no expectations nor judgement. Romance is a fiction we make up to divert our attention of how true love can be so painful and point you to the truth. No, we don't want truth, we can't handle it. We want to be entertained, be fooled. And we create more stupidity and sufferings from this. It amazes me how women like to be the fools in relationship.

mmm...without your anger...but that is not it. true love does not hurt...and it is not painful.

I love the subject, and i believe in fairytale love stories perhaps i want to live one someday.
A story i know of two loving people, they were married with kids, now they're grandparents, they are my mom and dad, i see the sparks fly when they talk or look at eachother, it's the most beautiful thing i think that two people grow together, stay together, they become one for real! And cannot seperate, i find it breath taking! I want something like that, to grow old with someone, and know that they love me to bits as much as i love them. :)

me too.

oh man. Those men. Charles Ingals type men. *sighs* they do make them. I know one, have met him recently. Told off on his good friend, just cause he came around making trouble. Works extremely hard at least 10 hours a day, likes to laugh and socialize with friends, but is all work when the time comes. *sighs* all i can do is nod and smile and say "ok" when he speaks to me, which is very rare.

No.. "those men" are not the men I'm talking about. Sorry you didn't meet the right guy.. but this is not that.

Well, when you say honesty and integrity Ingals pops in my head....:)
I have met the right guys..:) The stories just aren't finished yet :)
I hope you find the guy your looking for....