I really really like this girl, but she's just not ready for a relationship. I know her since 8 years. We've been awesome friends. She's just not ready to take it a step forward.

She once spent half and hour justifying how "friend" is longer than "love", "friendship" is stronger than "relationship". She is true at some places. Most relationships of people around me haven't lasted more than 4 months. But they knew the girl for less time, and those guys took the girls casually.

I've always loved hard
So I'll take it slow

It's true. When I love I love hard. I just don't let go of her. She comes in my dreams, my thoughts, even during studying. I have this dream to take her some secret place, give her a nice gift as her birthday is coming... and kiss her. I'm still finding that secret place...

I'm a hopeless romantic.
owlcity01 owlcity01
13-15, M
1 Response Dec 9, 2012

You know you will always have regrets if you don't tell her about your feelings, if you want to wait do it but one day you must tell her. The same thing happened to me, he didn't wanted to lose me as a friend , I respected his desicion and we are still friends until now, but may be destiny has a better ending for you two so don't give up on your feelings!! Everything will be ok !


I'll tell her after her birthday, before New Year.

Her birthday is on Christmas <3

It's a great timing ! Best of luck :)) !