Well awhile ago when I was starting to date my mom told me to be the type of person I want to meet. And I know this wee make me a great lover because I want a greater. But this philosophy was not complete. But I have dated a few guys and they all told advantage of my kind (but its ok because I see now how karma has got them back). Well I think the complete philosophy should be "be the person you want to meet and make sure you find a person like you". To be honest there are some people out there that its better not to know!