HotWife, Our Basics
Ann, my loving wife, is a HotWife.
To be clear, our definition of a HotWife is, a married woman who has sexual relations with men other than her husband, with her husband aware and fully agreeable to his wife's extramarital sexual activities. The husband in a HotWife relationship is not (necessarily) a cuckold. The cuckold term implies that there is a level of humiliation (intended as a negative) directed at the husband, via either the wife, her sexual partner, or both, the husband's humiliation due to his inability to curtail his wife's extramarital sex and/or her choice of sexual partners.
Ann is my darling HotWife and I am her loving, non-cuckold, STRAIGHT, husband. We BOTH love her HotWife adventures, and we have since beginning them many years ago (we enjoyed them even before we knew there was a name for the extramarital sexual adventures we thought we invented...hey, as far as we were concerned, we did invent this activity!).
In addition to Ann's several long term 'boyfriend' relationships, we enjoy HotWife adventures in many varieties, HotWife dating, MFM **********, club excursions for role playing and pick-ups, like minded group outings for casual sex hook-ups, swing club visits on 'single guy allowed' nights, even nude weekends at adults only, swinger friendly nudist resorts (not the AANR variety).
We're well aware that this isn't a long term activity for every couple, statistically, probably not one couple in a thousand would or could continue in this lifestyle, no matter how much they may have initially enjoyed it. But for us, we've been enjoying HotWife adventures since Ann's first in 1971.
As reversed as it may sound, what we found that we enjoy most is our sharing of the HotWife sexual adventure after wards, together, later, when Ann and I are together and alone...days and even years later. Believe me that's not to understate the enjoyment of the HotWife adventure as its happening, in every erotic detail, both physically and emotionally, for each of us (and the other guy, too!). But later when Ann and I are together, snuggling, petting, discussing, and reliving the adventure through our own memories and emotions, the complete openness, the honesty, the sharing, and the loving is almost overwhelming. Ann says that the sex on the side is fun, but the sharing after wards is what she's in it for and I agree.