Experience Project People Are Losers

This is the lastest thing she has come up with. First it was we should try and sleep togehter(after 8 years) and now all of u out there who openly share pieces of your soul are a bunch of "losers". I just looked at her and shook my head. I was amazed that peolpe who are lonely and feeling helpless are "losers". I tried to explain that the resentment and anger are something I need to work through. It is so amazing that after I told her how miserable I was she thinks she knows how to "fix' our brother/sister relationship. I am not sure what I will do at this point but Counseling is set up for Friday the 13th. She asks me why I am dwelling on the past and i told her years ago that being married to her was lonely and nothing changed so I stuck it out for the sake of my child. Well my daughter is now 12  and our relationship is excellent. I reid to prepare my daughter that Mom and Dad may be involved in arguments but this is about her Mom and me. So I will need to process more information but my gut is telling me that it is too late to "fix" what is broken. But then part of me wants to see if there is an option available to give it a try. Timewill tell.

discretejones discretejones
4 Responses Mar 8, 2009

I agree wholeheartedly.

i second that. women should understand that not all guys are the same. some of us actually want a relationship with romance and passion.

What your wife doesn't get is she's the loser. She loses out on love, pleasure, joy and happiness. We're not losers, we're just lost.

I know how you feel im stuck in a brother/sister relationship sexless its crap yet she wants to be with me 4ever & if i as much dare to look at the opposite sex all hell breaks loose ****** me off lifes to short i intend to bide me time & run like hell when i get the chance