Married 20yrs To Wife With Chronnic Illness..

I love her and want to spend my life with her...but I can't go sexless. I need the touch and pleasure. I wish there was a way to have both.
shybutdriven shybutdriven
41-45, M
4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

I'm new as of June 2015, and just read your post from November 2009. Anything to update about it? How are things for you now?

May I ask as to what the ( Chronnic Illness ) is.....?

Mine was the ended in divorce.

I have a chronic illness also, sex is the best thing for pain, ya know so many men claim wife is ill...ect. It may be that after 20 years and little effort she just does not want sex because it is not interisting to her. if more men made it worth it to the wife, love, laughter, spending time together they would want it.