I Am a Lesbian Married to a Man
Just Because I Love Women... It Doesn't Mean
Written on December 17th, 2011
Men are not the enemy in my book. I think they have a lot to offer besides being the other half of the human race. Do all men think alike because they are Adam's offspring? No! I don' t think so. Do all men have the same aspirations in life? Again... nope. What one man wants out of life, to be a soldier, another wants to be a football player or a computer tech. No matter what men want to be just because they are men does not mean they all think or act alike.
But why is it that some men think lesbians are natural enemies? We do not want to fight you for your women. We think they are beautiful, appealing and they should be loved. Some lesbians I agree can be a natural force to be reckoned with but be aware we are only loving those women who want to be loved by women. Let it be known we do not corrupt women or lead them astray. We do not bash you on the side lines. However if you treat your lady poorly and she goes to whomever loves her....the only equipment she really needs...is someone with a heart that loves and respects her.
I love women and I do not exclude men from my life. I care for the men in my family. I love my brothers, uncles and male cousins. I do not look down on men who are living a certain life style nor do I wish to be a man. I am a woman with love to give, I have shoulders strong enough for her to cry on. I am a women who loves women but it does not mean I am against or hate men.
I think there are plenty of women to love who want men as full time partners. Also there are women who want women as well. However, the social structure requires women to marry men. Sometimes she gets it right and sometimes she gets it later in life that she wants to be with a woman. It took me 35 years of marriage before I knew I wanted to be with women. However it did not stop me from loving the man I married.
Things are not as we wish them to be in life. We use what we have and make the best of it. Men if you love or have a daughter, sister or best friend who happens to become a lesbian... listen up. Please be kind to her and treat her like a human being. Why? Because she is not an enemy but a woman who shares the same interests as you. Which is to make a woman happy, to bring her gifts and to give her pleasure. Think of lesbians not in competition with you but as equals in the search of finding our better half.
Good luck with your journey in finding the love of your life... and wish us well too.
But why is it that some men think lesbians are natural enemies? We do not want to fight you for your women. We think they are beautiful, appealing and they should be loved. Some lesbians I agree can be a natural force to be reckoned with but be aware we are only loving those women who want to be loved by women. Let it be known we do not corrupt women or lead them astray. We do not bash you on the side lines. However if you treat your lady poorly and she goes to whomever loves her....the only equipment she really needs...is someone with a heart that loves and respects her.
I love women and I do not exclude men from my life. I care for the men in my family. I love my brothers, uncles and male cousins. I do not look down on men who are living a certain life style nor do I wish to be a man. I am a woman with love to give, I have shoulders strong enough for her to cry on. I am a women who loves women but it does not mean I am against or hate men.
I think there are plenty of women to love who want men as full time partners. Also there are women who want women as well. However, the social structure requires women to marry men. Sometimes she gets it right and sometimes she gets it later in life that she wants to be with a woman. It took me 35 years of marriage before I knew I wanted to be with women. However it did not stop me from loving the man I married.
Things are not as we wish them to be in life. We use what we have and make the best of it. Men if you love or have a daughter, sister or best friend who happens to become a lesbian... listen up. Please be kind to her and treat her like a human being. Why? Because she is not an enemy but a woman who shares the same interests as you. Which is to make a woman happy, to bring her gifts and to give her pleasure. Think of lesbians not in competition with you but as equals in the search of finding our better half.
Good luck with your journey in finding the love of your life... and wish us well too.
Age:
61-65
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Female
