Married to a Man, In Love With a Woman

*Sigh...* I am now at the crossroads that you were at 7 years ago. its such a difficult choice to make, so i fear i dont have the strength to make any choice. If you could go back, would you have done things differently? Oh, and if you'd like to see, here's my story >>>



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also, i am no one to be giving advice, but i think that tho it might be too late to have what you had with her, its never too late to move forward. you need to try to find your happiness. you'll be in my thoughts :)

I feel for you. I hadn't the courage to leave my family. I'm happy, but wonder how it would have all turned out. Do email me. I'd love to get to know you. There must be more

Very well said soulJouner.



anelv, we are all brought up in a world where we are supposed to be just like everyone else. Now we teach our children that it is ok to be different, to be themselves. I wish it was that way while you were being raised. You have to move on from here. Go forward with your head held high, and learn from your past.



People make mistakes, sometimes it is to please others and sometimes it is to please themselves. My outlook on life is that you can not make others happy unless you can truly be happy yourself. Concentrate on what you need to do to be at peace with yourself. Just try to be careful not to do anything that might disturb your children. Be careful and think things through as best you can before acting on anything the children may find upsetting.



Try and keep a friendly atmosphere between you and your husband, especially when your children are around. Things will be ok if you take your time and think and talk things through with your husband and children if they are old enough. Have faith in yourself.



I pray that things work out in a way that you and your family can be happy.