In Limbo

Hey there,

I have been married twice, both times to men. In the past 2 years I have realized that it's really a woman that I long to be with. I have a 14 year old daughter at home and a 22 year old son who has moved out on his own. All of the unknowns about moving out from my husband has me sitting back and taking no action. Our relationship is very good. Is anyone else just bidding their time until they feel the time is right?

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1 Response Feb 19, 2009

I am a 53 year old woman married 20 years to a 76 year old man who I will NEVER leave. I love him dearly ( I think). We are a family with 3 children between us. He knows my history (not one word about it, from either one of us) and never forces the "intimacy issue". We have not "been together" for over 10 years. However, I have had "friendships,etc" with women throughout my married life, but of course, these relationships eventually end due to the fact I can never go forward. I am in therapy, but have a very tough time discussing this matter. There just doesn't seem to be any answer. Life is short and hopefully I'll be reincarnated as a lesbian in a time period where it is PERFECTLY acceptable. Ha ha ha.