The Non-biological Mom!My partner and I have been trying to get pregnant for a while now. We have two inseminations tomorrow and Friday. The doctor seems to think this time is going to work because all of the issues before are resolved. She told us to be prepared to come back for a positive blood test. While this is SO exciting, all of a sudden its real. And I'm scared sh**less. I have all these angry thoughts that I'm not going to be as important as my partner in our child's life. I don't want her to breast feed, because I don't want the baby to know only HER as comfort. It's different from being a mom and dad couple. I'm going to be a MOM. I want to do the MOM things. How am I supposed to do that? I won't be on maternity leave. I won't know the child as well as she does when it comes out. I know this sounds selfish and I really, truly am happy to hopefully be having this experience soon.... but did any other non-bio moms have these fears/anxieties?
snt1004 22-25 2 Responses 1 Sep 26, 2012