My Girlfriend Lied About Her Past
Help - she keeps lying about old stuff - WHAT SHOULD I DO????
Last month when we were in her car, I saw a burned CD that looked like she had made it for someone else, like maybe she made 2 copies, gave one to the woman she was with at the time, and then kept one for herself is what I figured. She had written on it initials of the person she had been dating, and a heart. But they are also her own initals (weird coincidence) so she told me that it was just a bunch of songs she liked to play before going to sleep and she had made it a long time ago. I dropped it.
But then today I was cleaning and I found a paper with the list of songs on it, exactly in the same order of the CD, and it says the name on it of the woman she gave it to, and also a little bit of writing on the back that said she would always love her. I was pissed, not because she made a CD for this person, cuz that was before we were together. No, I'm pissed because she lied about it. This is a relationship she had last year, and she always tries to make it sound like it was nothing and no big deal, but now I know it was.
Also there were tons of pictures in the house of this woman, and it bothered me from day one. 2 months ago, i went away for the weekend on business, and she promised when I got back that all those pics would be gone. And then she called me when I was away and told me she was burning ALL of them. But I found some, underneath other photos in albums and stuff. When I confronted her about it, she got all mad and said that she didn't cheat on me so I should calm down. What should I do? If she keeps lying, idont think I can trust her...