Confused And New

ok so im 16 and for the past seven and a half months i have been in a realtionship with a girl...my girlfriend and i were bestfriends for a year before we started dateing i really do belive im in love with her iv never felt this strong about someone...but no one knows not my other friends not my parents no one because i do not think people would understand i just need to know that it is ok so if you have any advice please contact me i need guidance thanks for listening/readingsad
confusedandnew confusedandnew
18-21, F
4 Responses Jul 15, 2010

You don't have to think about it to think that it's right. Who's to say that being different from others are wrong? You don't have to tell your parents if you don't want to, at this stage it's better not to till you're older, but do whatever makes you feel better. Don't ask what if something bad happens or something good happens. If you feel like you need to get this off your chest then you should.

Sweety you do what you feel is right. If you know that your parents or friends will hurt you in any way you just need to remember that you are you and if you love yourself and your girlfriend loves you then that's all that matters. You have each other. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I'm here if you ever need to talk. Be strong and don't let the bad opinions get to you.

Sorry, I meant to say when you come out they will be in denial.

I am 18 years old and I just recently came out to my mother and family. It was very hard, all I ever hear about is how I am just confused, or it is just a phase. You just have to tell them it is not and if they don't want to believe you let them see over time.