Kinda Nervous.. But Excited..

So.. I'm 19 and I'm a stud..I have a gf.. and we've been together since 03/13/09 lol ... with a few.. "mishaps" .. I still live with my mom, and she with hers.. But we see each other every day just about... because she drives.. she's a month younger than me.. So tech we don't have oodles of freedom.. but we have just enough, and our parents don't know we're lesbians.. If they did we probably wouldn't be able to see each other, or date anymore.. Anyway.. I bought a strap on today.. on the internet.. and I had it mailed to a friend's house... I was very excited... well, I AM very excited... Jus worried that I wont know how to use it well.. She says I move like a guy when we make out.. but it must be different when an extra piece is added to the mix... i Just dont want to hurt her.. (we're both virgins) and she wants me to take her virginity.. and she mine.. but I'm worried about her more so than me.. I worry that I'll mess up.. or go to hard.. or too fast or something... and she actually has a kind of fear of "penis" if you will.. so she's apprehensive more than I am.. but she's glad I bought it at the same time.. I really, really, really don't want to mess this up... any advice please??
Thumpur Thumpur
26-30, F
5 Responses Feb 12, 2011

:) ... aww thanx guys!!! well im still waiting on it to come in from the mail...

Dont worry about it, is the best advice. Just go with the flow, sort of. Listen to eachother. Enjoy it. Probably will hurt a little in the beginning. But as long as you take it slow and just be in the moment, Im sure it will be good :)

Just go slow and listen to each other. And use lots of lube. lol. It's probably going to hurt a little at first, but once you get it in there, it should begin to feel better. I think most people start out a little apprehensive of the, "penis," lol ..well, the strap on, but you just have to find it in yourself to be comfortable with it. It doesn't mean you're any less gay if you like using it, or getting it... it isn't attached to a man, so just go at your own pace, and have fun!

:) thank you

Oh stop with the worrying please...I would just say be very attentive and gentle at the same time and as much as it may kill the mood at first take the time to learn what she likes, ask her if its too rough...tell her no need to fear the penis, there is someone who loves her on the other end...have fun !! Good Luck :)