I´m A Lesbian But Hey I´m Still The Same Person

As i told my friends and my family that i´m a lesbian i was a little bit scared because i don´t know how they reacting. My family accept it but i lost many friends..they sayed : " You´re a freak!!" It hurt me and i sayed:" HEY!! I´M STILL THE SAME PERSON!!" so why do you leave me?? i´ve done nothing so why ??? I´ve found some new friends but i have no girlfriend..

TheGermanTomboy TheGermanTomboy
13-15, F
6 Responses Sep 12, 2012

My friends were the same way those few people I wish would stay didnt.but hey a few people actually think that cus we're "LOUD AND PROUD"we are the people to know haha

My friends were the same way those few people I wish would stay didnt.but hey a few people actually think that cus we're "LOUD AND PROUD"we are the people to know haha

I'm not gay. I don't have gay relatives. I do have gay friends, including a couple of close ones, but I don't know what you're living through. I can't know that. I can't offer empathy but I can offer sympathy. I wish you didn't have to lose friends. You'll likely get people who think you should "keep it to yourself" or something like that, but you shouldn't have to hide who you are. Your sexuality is a big part of your identity. You should not have to hide part of yourself from people who claim to love you. They have to love and respect all of you. It's a package deal. Your sexual orientation is a part of you they need to accept. It really is that simple.

Even though I can't personally relate, I do know what it's like to lose friends and not do anything to cause it. I'm an atheist, and while I'm not comparing the two of us, I do know what it's like to be the same person I always was but have people abandon me because they found out something about me they didn't know before. It's not as simple as "They weren't really your friends." I know. It still sucks. It does, right? I would listen to casperRae She's a smart girl. She knows what she's talking about. I hope things go better for you in the future.

It's their loss, being gay shouldn't change a person. I'm really girly and I'm a lesbian...

It's their loss, being gay shouldn't change a person. I'm really girly and I'm a lesbian...

Some people are just to quick to judge that happened to me too but people who leave clearly weren't true to you :-) lol I went to add you to my circle and your page was blocked until further investigation your a lot younger than me lol woops sorries :-P