Relationships And Soul Mates

I have always found myself attracted to older women, I think its because in my head they will take charge, I am an indecisive soul, and am quite happy to let my partner lead. Unfortunately most of the women that are attracted to me are a couple years younger and want me to take control, then I have to be the one in the relationship that is the protector as it were. I want to be the one that is made to feel safe and protected. Also with older women they tend to be less needy, they tend to go with the flow because I just cant be around someone that wants to be with me 24/7. I think in relationships we should have our separate lives away from each other every so often because as much as I would adore the woman in my life we should be able to go out with our separate group of friends, then come back together.

I think everyone is looking for their soul mate, I have this picture in my mind what she will be and of course I will not get her, this perfect woman most likely doesn't exist but you never know what the future holds and I may even know her, I may know my perfect woman and not even realize.
peacefulstorm peacefulstorm
26-30, F
2 Responses Sep 21, 2012

Hoping that you are gonna find your soul mate!

awww... dont say like that... You will meet her & realize that she is the one. Dont be so confused about future. Future shouldnt be thing to be worried about... Good luck!