I Am a Lesbian

Why Do People Hate On Lesbians?

By: saraashley

Written on October 4th, 2012

Every time I hear comments that are negative about lesbians I feel like my heart is being ripped to shreds. With each comment it makes my eyes water up. Those comments hurt my feelings a whole lot.

By: saraashley

Age: 31-35 , Female

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21 responses

selashtill

people really shouldn't be so hateful, and judge mental to all of us. we are all different. not all lesbians are mean, rude and so on. The reason some probably are is because of the way they have been treated. as for me and my amazing girlfriend we could care less we are happy

Mar 5
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MegDancer

I agree the homosexual community is so negative towards the human race. They make up division and focus on gender. homosexuals have so much anger towards people who do not focus on gender. Homosexuals constantly make up code names to bash those who only have love for human beings in their hearts. Homosexuals call other people names like homophobe, and they bully everyone with their angry crockodile tears, while they curse people that are different behind their back.

Jan 30
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mells

As a lesbian in a commited relationship (were married) i have to say yes we have expierienced the hate, from our parents no less but strangers as well, at school i got called dyck, lesbo, batting for the other team etc etc, got the crap kicked out of me at school by girls and guys. Why cant we just accept it? our roomate is a c.d he gos through it when hes dressed up the name calling the put downs, its 2013 allmost and were still no further ahead it might as well be 1713 and be burned at the stake for being a witch.

Dec 19, 2012
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IssytheViking

It's amazing isn't it? I've been asking myself this for over 10 years. What did I ever do to you because I like girls? When you figure it out let me know please :)

Dec 19, 2012
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LUVELACE

WELL GIRL LET ME TELL YOU HATE COMES IN ALL FORMS,I HAVE HAD IT THROWN INMY DIRECTION A FEW TIMES,BUT THERE AGAIN I AM MALE AND A CD/TV AND A CATHOLIC,SO BY THAT REKONING I AM AN OUTCAST IN SOCIETY,BUT OUR OWN IGNORANCE OF THINGS DOSE NOT HELP THING EITHER,I HAVE TRIED TO EXPLAIN MY LIFESTYLE TO OTHERS AND SOME ACCEPT IT OTHERS THINK I AM JUST PLAIN WEIRD,BUT YET I LOOK THE SAME AS THEY DO THERE IS NOT PHYSICAL DIFFERENCE,AND THEY CALL US FREAKS,WEIRDOS,ETC ETC.

Dec 19, 2012
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abundantdesires88

In my personal and general surroundings are quite some lesbians. Generic lebians, lesbians that discovered it later on, bisexual lesbians and so on.
Pupils, policewomen (my neighbor), shopping assistant and so on.
It is a regular part of life. Of course, the specialty of it and the curiosity about it (and horniness to know details?) sometimes leads to funny remarks, especially with elder people.
But HATE? Really, NEVER saw it and I am an old fart already with 50+ years.

Oct 6, 2012
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misomountain

What's even sadder, is that for me, I notice these comments are also made between lesbians. Lesbians seem to hate on each other more then they are hated on by the straight community where I am from (Sydney, Australia).

Oct 5, 2012
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- abundantdesires88
  Reminds me of the Muslims: one group looks upon itself as being more pure, more intelligent, better in living "it". Whether "it" is lesbian lifestyle, religion or whatever. A lot of people just fight within their own peer groups, in a way ridiculous.
  
  Oct 6, 2012
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- darktippedrose
  tell me about it. I am Muslim, but sometimes I get way more hate from other muslims than from christians. and a lot of time, Christian or even atheistic or pagan men give me way more respect than my brothers in Islam. I soooo hear you on that one.
  
  Oct 27, 2012
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- saraashley
  You are so very welcome...
  
  Oct 27, 2012
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LaynePCP

What are people saying to you that hurts your feelings?

Oct 4, 2012
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- saraashley
  People say that I shouldn't be into women and that isn't natural and plus people judge me because I am attracted to women.
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- LaynePCP
  You probably mean christians, right?
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- saraashley
  I am not sure I don't ask. I just leave and have a good cry. Why do you ask?
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- LaynePCP
  Oh, usually it's run in's with christians...and sometimes those run in's can do more damage than good. Just curious....is it what they are saying, or HOW they are saying it? Maybe we can talk privatley one to one?
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- saraashley
  What are you asking?
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- LaynePCP
  Well, when people say the things they say to you, what do they back up their assertions with? If they say it's unnatural, why do theysay it's unnatural? Or do they just say it's unnatural and move on? Do they ever explain themselves? Sounds like maybe you have been involved in a lot of hit and runs with people NOt judging you, but rathe condemning you, woiuld that be correct?
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- saraashley
  I think it is because they are not in my shoes because just because they have never had a crush on someone from the same sex like I have always. I can't remember when I didn't have an attraction to women. It just feels natural that's all...
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- LaynePCP
  Can I message you tomorrow and pick this up with you? I do know what it's like to have attractions from earliest childhood myself and would love to talk more about all this with you my friend....
  
  Oct 4, 2012
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- pony6girl
  negative haters so sad they excist,it is a natural feeling jst like a guy an girl,
  
  Oct 7, 2012
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- pony6girl
  aw sorri thats supposed to be negative,my bad hahaha
  
  Oct 7, 2012
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