I Like Her. . . But Is She A Lesbian Too?

I'm getting mixed signals from this girl that I have a crush on. To further complicate things she doesn't live nearby, so we don't get to see each other a lot, but we communicate every day email, phone, message, somehow. I really like her and I'm cool with trying a distance thing, but I don't know if she's a lesbian or bi. She knows I am, and the one time the subject came up between us she said, "I don't know what I am."

What I'm really asking is advice. Should I ask her out the next time I see her and let her know what my feelings are or should I wait for her to make the first move knowing she might never? Either way, I don't want to lose her as a friend. She's an awesome person, I'd rather have her friendship than nothing.
Owlmaid Owlmaid
26-30, F
3 Responses Jan 15, 2013

i would ask her, i think you still be friends of things dont work out the way u want them too

I think you should tel her about your feeling for her and that you would like to go on a date with her. Cos by her sayin she doesn know what she is makes it clear she is open to bein a les if given the chance so this could be your chance so go ahead. But also let her know that even if she is not interested in being a les or she dont want to date a les let her know either way you cherish the frenship you have with her and that whatever she decide will not harm the frenship. But my advice is go ahead and tel her your feelin and ask her on a date and pls reply back once you done that so we here can know how it went. Good luck:)

tell her your feelings, but before you do say something like i want to tell you something but i dont want things to be bad between us or something like that